"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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(JJ)

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hey so on the first kiss what do you guys think is better?
(this is assuming i already have the balls to go in for it)
should it be like a little peck, slight making out, or hot and heavy?
i kno its gonna have to be calibrated or whatever to the situation but what has worked best in your guys' experiences?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my experience it never turns out how you expect it too. Every time I go for a slight peck the girl grabs me and turns into more. When I try to make it more at first It reverts to a slight peck so man just go for it. Somethings better then nothing and see what happens with her end of things.
 
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