"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kiss of Death

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Anyways...

I have a friend, a girl 2 years younger than me. I've known her for about 5 years now since highschool.

Anyways, she moved to a different state a few years ago. She came to visit last year, and she showed my ALOT of ioi's, i could just tell she wanted me bad. I was involved with another chick at the time and did nothing.

She came to visit again about a month ago. This time around, the girl had a boyfriend. However when I talked to her she never mentioned him to me, i found out from her sister.

This time around, I still noticed some ioi's too. We hung out and had a good time. Note that she never mentioned me her bf. We were back at my house, watching a movie in my room. I noticed that she sat closer to me and would occasionally give me looks. Also, everty time I would move my hand to move the mouse, she would kind of press her chest into my arm (she had a sweater on). We were sitting really really close and there was sexual tension. However, I also knew that she had a bf (whom she has not mentioned to me). So I said, well **** it. I really wanted this girl, but if she was with her bf i didnt want to bother.

However, when I was driving her home I Asked about her bf. She said she had a bf but she didnt like him anymore and she said she was going to dump him really soon. She said she wanted to have fun, etc. As she told me this Im thinking "**** DUDE U SHOULDA PULLED A MOVE!!!!!".

So I thought she was basically giving me the green light.. so when I dropped her off, I went for the kiss. What does she do? she turns her head and gives me the ****ing cheek.

I think I Should have made the move at my house when I had her hot.

Any thoughts on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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From my experience,,girls such as the one you describe are very bold. They will make the first move.

Once,,a girl fvcked her chances with me too because I went for the kiss when the moment wasn't right. (even though she returned it,,and I mean,,REAAAAAALLY returned it,,i got LJBF'ed by her a few days later).

Conclusion: learn from this experience,,and don't repeat that mistake ever again. Until she starts running to you again,,just work on perfecting yourself in every aspect.
 
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Some people would disagree, but just like men, women do things they regret to, we can't all be perfect. some reason that comes to my head when i read this

Maybe you should of made a move earlier, sounds like she just wanted some and when you took her home chances were over so yeah you probably should of made a move, least if you did you wouldn't be asking "why???" right now

100th post lol
 
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She wanted to mess around, not a kiss goodnight. So yeah it makes sense she reacted that way when you went for a goodnight kiss but couldnt make a move earlier when she was wanting to hook up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ioi = indication of interest.

yea i think my problem was that i didnt strike the iron when it was hot. I shoulda made a move early and not pussed out.

oh well, il just learn from my mistakes.
 
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