"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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felixfoo

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1. The girl i like been complaint that she did not get a good kiss from previous boyfriend she had been before, and me too , so what kind of kiss will impress her?

2. I quite confuss with a girl, and i did not know what is playing on her mind, she did not declare me as her boyfriend, but she still said she love me, so how do i ask for the answer?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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djneo

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.. read a lot about kissing, practice makes perfecrt ,, right.. it's like eating your favorite food. u can use a lot of technique on kissing.
.. usually, girls give some subtle clue if their interest is high, so play the game.. act as if she like u already..don't focus on the thought that u have to impress her but show it in action that u are the price here ...
 

kdnash82

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Some people just suck at kissing. It's either too hard, too wet, too dry, or too boring. Sometimes a person just has to sit down and show whoever their with how they like to be kissed.

As far as the love thing goes. I have yet to tell my girl that I love her. She has said it many times, and I have yet to say anything. It usually goes like this.

Her: I love you baby.
Me: *kisses her forehead and gives her a hug*

Nothing is said. She has never questioned it.
 

Bible_Belt

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Girls tell me that most guys are too eager in general, with both kissing and sex. Slow down and tease her.

And about the love thing, remember that when she says she loves you, that's chickspeak for "Right now I feel as though I love you." It means you are doing well, but don't confuse it with the popular ideas of love as being tied to some sort of commitment or loyalty.
 
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