"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kiss My Azz Club!

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Well, Vinnie Mac the chair of WWE started a grand tradition a few years back called the "kiss my azz club." As in, kiss it or...."You're FIRED!"

Anyway, it appears as if I was "the boss" a couple nights ago when I went to a singles party. The hottest girl there (the only hot girl there?) began eye ****ing me hard and grabbed me to dance with her several times. She did this very sexy dance with me (imitating going down on me) repeatedly.

The guys there were in awe:

"dude, do you work out?" feeling up my arms and shoulders

"you are the man!"

"you are a player!"

"that was brilliant!"

"she is beautiful!"

"can I get you something to drink?"

Anyway, either they were truly in awe, they wanted to look cool by association, or they were trying to game her by complimenting me in front of her.

Either way, I was being complimented having my butt kissed and being catered to, almost as if royalty.

But, it was so over the top, it makes me wonder if the guys were truly that amazed, or if there was some ulterior motive. Anyway, it was fun, interesting and yet simultaneously a bit strange to be the recipient of such over the top brown nosing and butt kissing. Hmmm....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like a pack of beta AFC's bowing to a guy who shows some success. Did you actually do anything or do you behave a certain way?

She could have just been a AW & your lucky night.
 

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I was just running a minor amount of game. She was 30+ and I usually need a very minimal amount of game with these girls to be successful. These girls usually lay out the roadmap to sex clearly and obviously ("what are you doing later? "Where are you staying?").

NOT. THIS. TIME.

NOT. THIS. GIRL.

She was doing constant takeaways and endless push pull. I was not used to this much game and making this much effort with this category of girl. I actually found the entire process tedious, as girls usually make the process much more straightforward.

But yeah, it's unusual to see this much subservience from guys: usually, they just get jealous and bitter rather than displaying admiration. Maybe it was just this particular event.
 
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