"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kiss closed, kind of rejected....not sure why

SamMalone

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We out with some friends a few weeks ago. Anyways, one of them brings a friend thats a chick (theyre just friends). I've met her briefly in the past. We get to talking. She's touching my leg with her hand, making strong eye contact with me. I started texting this other girl in front of her and she started getting real jealous, telling me to "stop texting that [girl]" a few times in a fake-angry type voice.

Bar closes, we're all drunk, she lives close by. Tells all of us to stay at her place so we dont have to drive.

We walk back to her place, she says she's cold, I grab her waist and pull her close to me to "warm her up". All going good. Don't really remember how, but someone she tells me I can slap her a**. I spank her. Get back to her place. We all sit down. One of my friends passes out whle the other one is awake. I have my arm around this girl sitting down. Other friend leaves the room for some reason, so I go in for the kiss.....and get nothing. Then we get a real akward silence and she goes upstairs to bed without saying anything.

I passed out, next day we all hang out for a bit, not akward or anything. I drive her alone (the two of us) to her car but don't make a move since I'm hungover and unsure of what happened.

Since then I've texted her once that she responded but I haven't texted her since and she hasn't texted me at all. Think she's interested or not? I thought yes but the kiss thing confused me. Should I text her again? Most girls I've talked to will usually initiate a text convo after the first time I texted.
 

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Atom Smasher

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Simple. She wasn't ready for the kiss. She wasn't warmed up so it felt forced and awkward.

You need to make them FEEL. It's all about how they feel. You need to create a certain sexual tension through verbal inuendo, slowly invade her personal space, and wait for her to glance down a few times at your mouth. That's the "Go" signal right there. When she does that glancing, you are 100%assured that the kiss will be eagerly accepted.

I don't even go for the kiss. I go for the tension and the glance, because the glance means, "Oh, how I want him to kiss me". That's not the words she's thinking, it's the feeling she's having. When you do it right you can almost "will" her to do it.
 
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