"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kiss Close!

DonGiovanni

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How do I kiss close on a girl and how do I know when and where its the appropriate time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MartyMcFly

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If she looks at your lips a lot. Right time. If she stalls after you say goodnight. Right time. While shes talking to her grandma. Wrong time.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Whenever you want. It's more of a calibration thing, you'll know the more you do it.
More often than not, she will be ready for it, while you are still being a *****, beating around the bush.
Triangular gaze (looking at her lips quickly, seeing if she mirrors) works well for kissing.
You can also say something like "I wanna kiss you so bad right now."
Dont wait for the moments to come; create them.
 

DonGiovanni

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Ok I tried but she hit me with some Sh*t like. "Im not that type of girl. I only kiss my boyfriends." I'm seriously considering nxting. she has 1 more strike.
 

DonGiovanni

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Ok I tried but she hit me with some Sh*t like. "Im not that type of girl. I only kiss my boyfriends." I'm seriously considering nxting. she has 1 more strike.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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DonGiovanni said:
Ok I tried but she hit me with some Sh*t like. "Im not that type of girl. I only kiss my boyfriends." I'm seriously considering nxting. she has 1 more strike.
Sounds like a **** test to me, plow man.
Or you could just make up a roleplay, like "You're my GF for the day"
 
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