"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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(((KISS CLOSE))) So how exactly do you do it?

j8snx1

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DJ's!

The infamous Kiss close is what's been boggling my mind for a bit.

My last post was about me going ice skating with this HB8 from school. We were friends for a year, hung out for just a little bit, but nothing more, since I was just an AFC. Senior year comes by, and I'm packing heat with the DJ methods! I bust on her a lot, use kino, you know; usual DJ ways.

Ice Skating Night from school is this friday, and someone from my last thread said I should definitely use the kiss close. The issue is, I am not sure how interested she is into me; i am not even sure if she has interest at all!!! Nonetheless, I plan to show her a great time, use lots of kino, humor, and plain old fun to bring up her interest level (or try to). Probably gonna try those IOI tests, like ESP or the hand grabbing method!!

But my mind says...........WHAT must a DJ-in-training do to perform an effective and powerful Kiss Close?


SO DJ's

What are some great and effective ways to KISS CLOSE on a girl I've known for about a year? Please help, and dont label me as AFC! I would like to know some great ways to perform the kiss close without coming off as some rapist or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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toddC

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well trust me you'll be able to tell if she has interest, trust me on that. If you feel like shes showing attraction pump up the kino and EC and what not. Then I guess towards the end of the night just wait for the right moment (you'll know when) and just plant one on her. GL :)
 

Smooth Player 056

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Personaly I use Mystery Kiss Close

Say "Would you like to kiss me"

If she says yes- kiss her

if she says maybe say- lets find out and then kiss her

if she says NO say- I didnt say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind

Love,
Smooth
 

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use the kiss test from DYD. After talking or whenever a oppurtunity arises, touch/stroke her hair and say: "you're hair looks so soft". If she seems to enjoy it/permits it. Touch it again, and glance at her lips, and back to her eyes. If she permits again, just go for in for the kiss.
 
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