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Kiss close on a Coffee date

saber101

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This is something ive had a real problem with lately. I usually go for coffee on a first date cuz its cheap and simple. And i like to set the tone on the first date (i.e. kiss close to tell her that things will most definitely get physical, and we're not just guna be friends). Except i really have a problem kiss closing at the end of a coffee date. Cuz during the date, theres not much physical contact. Your sitting across from the person, and the most you can do is maybe grab their hand if its on the table. Anyways, at the end of the date what can you do? walk them to their car? this just looks weird and needy. Anyways ive had too many dates go bad cuz there just seemed like no appropriate time to do it. Any tips?
 

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try walking to the car mid conversation while its still really clickin smoothly, instead of waiting for the conversation to die... and then going to the car.

Obviously if the conversation is still going and you're making her laugh you can lean on the car next to her and keep it going for a half a minute more.

Its while walking to the car and leaning on it that you want to really gauge how physically comfortable she is with you. If you haven't really clicked and she seems in a rush to roll out she probably isn't that into you and there's no point.

However we're going to assume everything is going well, laughing, talking, pushing, and playful kino are all present. Its when you're leaning on the car still joking around right before you say goodbye that you wanna get as close as possible with play kino and sneak one in there before you say goodbye.
 

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Sir_Turtle said:
try walking to the car mid conversation while its still really clickin smoothly, instead of waiting for the conversation to die... and then going to the car.

Obviously if the conversation is still going and you're making her laugh you can lean on the car next to her and keep it going for a half a minute more.

Its while walking to the car and leaning on it that you want to really gauge how physically comfortable she is with you. If you haven't really clicked and she seems in a rush to roll out she probably isn't that into you and there's no point.

However we're going to assume everything is going well, laughing, talking, pushing, and playful kino are all present. Its when you're leaning on the car still joking around right before you say goodbye that you wanna get as close as possible with play kino and sneak one in there before you say goodbye.
This is great advice.
 
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