"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kiss close but no Text back WTF???????

HighResurrection

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The Story


Picked up this girl on the bus, was very confident. I used a lot of ****y comedy to get the number. We texted each other for a bit during the week a little a was busy and she could see that.

The texting consisted of more C &F.

So we agree to meet last Sunday for a sit down. Met her at the coffee shop more C & F sat down gave her a little kiss.

for all my approaches, I am making progress.

So she said she had to go at 4pm and I was like since you have to go ill walk you back. My thinking was if she has to go don't push it and also leave her wanting more. So I left it at that.

But at the same time I could tell she was hot for me.

Wednesday texted her a bit more C & F

Friday rolls around I wanna set up something for weekend
so I text but no response.

Texted her again Saturday but no response.

so no I'm wondering if I should have taken every opportunity to escalate and to hell with her appointments?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tiguere

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what kind of texts did you sent? not the usual boring " hey how are you?"

you have to sent a hook text. something that will intrigue her.

"hey guess what i just saw that reminded me of our coffee?"

but anyways if she was into you she would had responded by now.

put this one on ICE. and sarge on.
 

mark123

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Tiguere said:
you have to sent a hook text. something that will intrigue her.
"hey guess what i just saw that reminded me of our coffee?"
Tiguere - that sounds like a pretty cool concept in texting. Any more examples like that, esp those that might have worked for you? (google search gives nothing :)). thanks.
 
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She got another man and is not interested in you anymore. Move on.

Case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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