"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can you touch them too much? Not one in particular, but my friends always have to crack jokes about me touching people. I'll just grab their arm or something, not actually grab but you all know what I mean.

I don't say anything to them, my friends, about not being afraid to touch them.

Hope this makes a little bit of sense....let me know.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmmm

a female will let u know when u r touching them to much.. You have to go with the vibe that they r giving u...

ur male friends might not understand that only because they r thinking like a guy. Remember females like the way you make them feel if they like the way you touch them and that makes them happy u r doing nothing wrong

I use to hate to touch females i though i was invading there space, but then I started noticing that when a female was trying to get my attention in a romantic way they would always try to touch me.

So morale of the story is if u want to let a female know u like her and find out if she likes you touching her will let u know..
 
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It sounds like your friends are ripping on you for being comfortable around other people. When AFCs see things they don't understand (or are jealous of), they'll rip on the people who posess these qualities because they don't "get" it.

There's nothing wrong with you. If you're comfortable enough to use kino on other people (especially women), then by all means do it! It's part of your natural personality. Embrace it!
 
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Thanks guys....I never used it till I started reading threads on here, now I use it alot. I have never had a women say why are you touching me or pull away so I figure what the hell keep doing it. Even with my guy friends I'll touch their arm or something! Maybe I should stop touching them, but everything I have always read said that everyone likes to be touched.
 
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Even with my guy friends I'll touch their arm or something! Maybe I should stop touching them, but everything I have always read said that everyone likes to be touched.
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You might need to change how you touch your male friends (man, that sounds bad already). I've seen guys whack others in the back, lightly punch the other in the shoulder, but it's all a friendly and masculine way of showing that you like your friends.

Leave the hair touching, the eyelash removal, and the cheek pinching for the women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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