Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just thought i would start up a little discusion, how do you use kino, no this is not me asking for help, just wondering how you personaly do it with girls you are not 'with' so just a girl you know but do not know well.

we ill start it by saying i do not use kino in excesive amounts just from time to time and mostly just to get her attention or put emphasis on somthing. The places i touch are the shoulder and upper arm.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you know, geo talks about kino a lot, apprntly swears by it i know its good, im asuming know 1 is replying because you do not use it! are you saying you do not touch girls? come on guys!
 

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when your talking and you make a joke and things are going well.. kinda nudge her arm a little if she takes it well my laughing, and she nudges you back.. score one for the home team :)

or even if she doesn't nudge back but smiles score again
 

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Originally posted by Fitch
What is kino?
kino is shor for kinostetic (not sure i spelt that right) and means touching. So when we talk aobut kino we are talking about touching girls whilst we talk to them. altohugh any touching is kino, we are refering genraly to non intrusive touching such as touching her arm whilst you talk to her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
kino is shor for kinostetic (not sure i spelt that right) and means touching. So when we talk aobut kino we are talking about touching girls whilst we talk to them. altohugh any touching is kino, we are refering genraly to non intrusive touching such as touching her arm whilst you talk to her.
good that you cleared that up, a new person might think wait i'm supposed to touch her!

then come back and said i grabed her boobs and she got all offended!
 

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i only do kino when it's necessary. i have no need to hold on to a girl's hand and drag her around the store like other losers. i have no need to give her a back rub to tell her that i am interested in her.

i will rub her arm if she somewhat hurt herself on it and i will spank her butt playfully if she's acting playfully.
 

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kinoing is not holding her hand. Thats affection. Kino is not dragging her around the store. Its subtle touching. Brush her hair away from her eyes, or touch her arm when you talk, or tickle her, or wrestle playfully.......These are all forms of kino.

Maybe you could say that holding hands is a form of kino, but I personally only hold hands w/ a g/f. If we're dating, then MAYBE.

Keep in mind that kino is used to generate interest and make her more comfortable around you. If you are holding someone's hand when you first meet them or holding them in a store, maybe you should rethink your approach and read the bible over again.
 

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Kino eh?...i love kino

THis is how i started it once....i talk to this girl really close, like jus beside her.

ALso, i look at things that she wears, like those small watches and i grab her hand and put it close to my face so that i cna see the watch better errm....

i do the shoulder tap a couple times so i can get a touch of her shoulder, but now that shes comfortable with my kino i dont touch the shoulder anymore, i touch her hip.

Dont be afraid to touch guyz....ill just tell you something improtatn

NEVER touch a girl in her underpits (if u want to tickle her)
 
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