thelonewolflegend
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what do you normally do on a 1st group date?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
kino you use on group date?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thelonewolflegend
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ok ill do okay but im not fully charming yet im bit of a seasoned rookie.
what type of touching can i do to her?
what type of touching can i do to her?
Gentlemen this is a football
You were told: you don't do group dates.
You're posting is like premature ejaculation...you get excited about the little small details and shoot your load all over the place in the form of multiple questions about tiny details that you're getting hung up on when...
You have no basic structure.
Do you have literacy problems? Can you read well?
I'm not going to recommend that you read the dj bible...
You need to go back to basics.......buy yourself the following book:
Doc Love The System
Study it as if you had to pass an exam on it. As if you had to give a speech on it.
Download his radio shows. You can even call his radio show and ask whatever questions you have.
It comes with two CD's. Listen to them. This is the basic structure that you need. This is the structure you lack.
This is a football.
By the way, have you ever spoken to a medical professional?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKN3rvrWyvg
You were told: you don't do group dates.
You're posting is like premature ejaculation...you get excited about the little small details and shoot your load all over the place in the form of multiple questions about tiny details that you're getting hung up on when...
You have no basic structure.
Do you have literacy problems? Can you read well?
I'm not going to recommend that you read the dj bible...
You need to go back to basics.......buy yourself the following book:
Doc Love The System
Study it as if you had to pass an exam on it. As if you had to give a speech on it.
Download his radio shows. You can even call his radio show and ask whatever questions you have.
It comes with two CD's. Listen to them. This is the basic structure that you need. This is the structure you lack.
This is a football.
By the way, have you ever spoken to a medical professional?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKN3rvrWyvg
thelonewolflegend
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i have really improved my game but yes I am a little slow but my mental state has vastly improved since 2 years ago (when i first dated a girl i literally would just sit at the table and stare at the bag) now I walk up to girl initate convo and attempt to get her number as awakward as it looks I STILL DID IT fOR GODS sAKES so THaTS GOTTA MEAN SOMETHING
Only go on a group date if it is a girl you have been dating and banging. New dates or a girl you just met should strictly be one on one until you built chemistry and had sex. Going out on first dates with people around in a group limits what you can do and has too many distractions. Not a good idea to do in my opnion.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
thelonewolflegend
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Humor – Diffuse direct questions with humor like Jim Carrey. No matter what she asks, or how many times she nags you, she’ll only get a funny answer. Keep it light and funny always (no religion, no politics, no sex, no negatives, no putdowns).
is this true
is this true
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well she doesn't know me well
also that doc love book got lot of bad reviews
also that doc love book got lot of bad reviews
that's no problem, at least your honest. I'm sure you have made great improvements in the last two years. Of course that means something....regardless of the outcome, you're only a failure if you don't try.....and you're trying.thelonewolflegend said:
You still need a basic structure to stop you over analysing...
Here's a few things you need to be doing:
1. Get the System (it will give you the basic structure that you need and many of the questions you have you will be able to anwser by reflex..)
2. Exercise: Add cardio into your routine. Even if it's a light walk in the morning. Just do it. Get your feel good endorphines in the morning.
3. Listen to a positive/ life enhancing audio book (20 minutes daily) repeat repeat repeat
recommendations:
Darren Hardy
Brian Tracy
Jim Rohn
Jack Canfield (how to build high self esteem)
4. Focus on building a social life.....: to become more social and make your life more interesting. NO alcohol....it's all about sharpening your social skills.
meet up.com
5. Take up a hobby: something you can become passionate about.
6. Take up Salsa dansing: concentrate on becoming good at it and the social aspect. You will be mixing with women, as a consequence becoming more at ease.
7. Take up a martial art
8. Talk to a counseller
9. Volunteer. This will take the focus of you.
10. Stop talking about wrestling. Period.
11. Become a giver. Practice a random act of kindness each day, even if it is sending an email to thank or praise someone. What's the point? Your practicing giving positive emotions.
12. Practice looking for the positive. you said your friends are all "betas" (stop that as well), good! there's an opportunity for you to be the leader of the group, pracitce your leadership skills. help them and you help you.
13. Do something once a week just for fun. bowling, crazy golf, laser guns, paintball, the aquerium, amusement park, pool, go cart racing.......do it for yourself first, with a friend. LATER you can use these as fun dates.
If nothing changes, nothing changes....
You really want women? Make your life interesting and become an interesting person who is passionate about life.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Stop doing group dates, they are not dates. Nothing lands you in the friend zone faster than a fûckin group date.