"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KINO WORKS! and all the rest of it.

Too2shai

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Thanks guys. Took a whirl at it with this fine girl from my work.
anyways

What worked:

Kino:
- reading of the palm. pretending to know what it really said. drove her CRAZY. tried to seduce me lol.

- whenever she'd go to hit me but stop right before she did. i'd hit her lightly and ask. WHAT. were you gonna hit me? and hit her again lightly and laugh. this happened a couple times before she actually started hitting me.

- always joking with her. making fun of her if she forgot something. but lightly and always making a joke out of it.

Calling:
- didn't call her back the same day as she left a msg. the next yes. didn't call her for much other than to setup when we were going out next. coffee. dinner. miniputt. YES miniputt lotsa chance to make fun. jokes. tons of kino and its fun and different.


- txting. refrained from this also. even though very tempted. minimum msging back and forth. saved everything for when we'd meet.

Jealousy:
- she's a very pretty girl. and has guys asking her out and begging to date her all the time. she'd tell me about it. and i didn't get jealous. as hard as that was to do. but whatever. she's human. no pedestal people.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Desdinova

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- whenever she'd go to hit me but stop right before she did. i'd hit her lightly and ask. WHAT. were you gonna hit me? and hit her again lightly and laugh. this happened a couple times before she actually started hitting me.
Mixing kino in with your ****y/funny is pure dynamite. Keep up the good work!
 

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Kino is the greatest tool in a DJ's aresenal. There is no better way to connect with girls
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
Kino is the greatest tool in a DJ's aresenal. There is no better way to connect with girls
agreed

My combination is repuation as a player, listening and giving feedback to problems, kino, smiling, good attitude, being happy with your life, and doing your own thing even if you stand alone. Thats me and it worked for me.

She also wasn't happy when she tried to get me jealous and I wouldn't even care (I didn't because she knew if she cheated that she wouldn't see me again for a very long time if ever). She would get jealous though when she heard stories of what girls would do to me. HAHA!!!
 
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