"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kino vs. Non-kino?

boogieman2188

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Ok, so there's this girl that I'd really like to get with, but whenever I use kino, it never seems to escalate like it should. :cuss: I've read the escalation ladder and followed it.

Now, considering she may be used to this touchy feely-ness, what if we were to hang out all night and i didn't touch her at all. What reaction might I get?

Would this be a good idea? As far as testing purposes?

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DarkShade

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I'd keep kinoing, because even if she is used to it, she's at least COMFORTABLE with you doing it. If you didn't do it, it may seem awkward to her. If you want to test it, do it less but don't completely remove it, maybe she'll make up from the less kino by giving YOU more.
 

boogieman2188

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Thanks for the tip.

And I'm sorry, I think I forgot to mention I'd only do it on one date.

I wouldn't completely remove it though, holding hands and such I think would remain but as far as anything else, I want to see how she'd react and hopefully do exactly what you said, give ME more kino. ;)
 
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