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Kino vs. Non-kino?

boogieman2188

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Ok, so there's this girl that I'd really like to get with, but whenever I use kino, it never seems to escalate like it should. :cuss: I've read the escalation ladder and followed it.

Now, considering she may be used to this touchy feely-ness, what if we were to hang out all night and i didn't touch her at all. What reaction might I get?

Would this be a good idea? As far as testing purposes?

Thanks.
 

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DarkShade

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I'd keep kinoing, because even if she is used to it, she's at least COMFORTABLE with you doing it. If you didn't do it, it may seem awkward to her. If you want to test it, do it less but don't completely remove it, maybe she'll make up from the less kino by giving YOU more.
 

boogieman2188

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Thanks for the tip.

And I'm sorry, I think I forgot to mention I'd only do it on one date.

I wouldn't completely remove it though, holding hands and such I think would remain but as far as anything else, I want to see how she'd react and hopefully do exactly what you said, give ME more kino. ;)
 
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