"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino to get a girl's attention

iCatch

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before everyone bashes me about the search function, i did. i dont feel like reading hundreds of threads so just post examples here and i'll edit the good ones into the 1st post

what are some things i can do to get a girl's attention?

for example:

i see a girl i know walking in the hallway. i usually put my hand on the back of her neck and rub it a little and say hi. that usually works wonders.

if shes walking towards me in the hallway i usually

either

smile and poke her stomach and say hey

or

"get in her way" if she steps left i get in front of her. if she steps right i get in front of her. this usually gets a good reaction.


more examples like this please!



gimme some more!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jaggs

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I do heaps of differen't shyt.

Once you get good at kino its just plain fun. I try and completley dominate the girl, move in front of her and block her way playfully, and if I'm leading them somewhere I'll grab their hand forefully and pull them. Sometimes being a little rough is really good (Although not TOO rough, save that for sex lol).

Lots of poking, arm around shoulder, brushing past...Getting straight into her comfort zone. When you can stand RIGHT Next to a girl with arms touching and she doesn't move, you know she's loving it. (Unless your a creep)

I love kino.

And of course, the ultimate kino when you are alone is tickling. Girls love it, and you are literally putting your hands all over her body. Jump on top of her, hold her hands above her head forefully and tickle her till she wets herself. This shows you are completley dominant and playful, and is the perfect time to go in for a passionate kiss. chicks DIG IT. its almost like RAPE :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snowdog

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iCatch said:
did you read the first sentence of my post?
I did the searching for you, and gave you links to excellent advice; any thing you need to read. And you still have the guts to have a big mouth?

If even this is too much trouble for you, you're going to fail miserably. Eat sh#t.
 
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