"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FrustratedChump

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I had a date on the weekend with a girl I've been seeing for about a month and a half. It was very hot outside, so we spent the day in her pool. I found myself in an awkward position because I was stumped when it came to generating kino.

I got her to rub suntan oil on my back before we went swimming, but for the 3 or 4 hours we spent in the pool I was totally out of ideas.

For the most part she just wanted to float around in the water on one of those floating bed thinggies ...

I can see the possibility of spending much time in her pool this summer, so any good ideas would be appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bloke

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If you're in the same situation again, just throw her off the bed as joke then startthrowing her around the pool playfully. This way you perform alot of physical interaction, are having fun & you can feel her up a bit ;)

If she gets pissed that you threw off, don't apologize & tell her not to be a sook
 

FrustratedChump

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Hmmm.... good idea. She was already pissed that I kept throwing the beach ball at her head... lol
 
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