"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been kino'ing a girl and its getting pretty heated... except she doesn't kino back.

I will put my hand between her thighs and leave them there.... also caress her stomach. I will sit in a chair while she's standing and lean into her leg/butt with my shoulder and she won't move away but, she never initiates it.

When we sit down, i will lean my leg against hers and she will never backoff. We will sit with our legs touching for minutes on end. She makes strong eye contact.


I'm assuming that she likes it... because she NEVER moves away and is always welcoming to it. How can I be sure? How can I get her to kino back?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You need to kiss her. Read Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder, you shouldn't be near her thighs (most of the time) until it's time to have sex.

She's just trying to avoid responsibility and make it seem like it "just happened".
 
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nice, thanks!

Should I keep kino'ing her? If she doesn't move away she obviously likes it right?
 
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If she doesn't pull away, she likes it or at the very worst doesn't mind it.

Don't expect her to kino you back. That's not her job. Most chicks won't get touchy/feely until foreplay, right before doing the deed.

But since your kino is being well received, brush her hair aside, look in her eyes, and then move in for the kiss.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl i'm dating does the same thing. I got to talk to her about it and she basically said that I was the man and that I should take the lead. Kinda lame because shes just using that as an excuse to do nothing I think sometimes. First time I banged her I had to get a little aggressive, throw her on the bed and bang her like that. I mean I could kinda tell she wanted it but she wasnt really returning any kino. She just laid there and took it, kinda weird first time. I don't mind opening, but I like a woman to show me shes interested too and get into it. Otherwise it feels like a rape or something. This one doesnt, so I just make the best of it. I use her like a living sex toy now. I'll lay her down, position her, bang her, flip her, when i'm done ill shove my c@ck in her mouth and tell her to suck it, maybe i'll hit the cooch again, give it a lick, whatever she just lets me have my way with her. I've never bossed around a girl quite like this but she likes it and i'm getting used to it too. Kinda cool when you know it's a free for all like that. She just wants to get ravaged...
 
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On your next date with her, pull back on the Kino. Be friendly, polite, nice, and I'm not saying DON'T touch her at all, just don't touch her as much as you have been. She'll miss it, and she'll make an effort to get you to touch her again.
 
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Another thing that may be the cause... is that I don't think she has much experience with guys. She's young and just moved to a big city from a small town. Probably doesn't have any "female-game" yet... :)

I'll take your advice though... and see how it goes!
 
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