"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kino Reaction

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There is this girl who kinoed me on this day and I kinoed her upper arm for about 1.5 seconds. She didn't have any negative reactions but her face was burning red (seemed nervous). Is this because I have never kinoed her before? Is this a good reaction or a bad one?

If it is a bad reaction, how should I recover?
If it is a good reaction, how should I escalate?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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antidonjuan said:
There is this girl who kinoed me on this day and I kinoed her upper arm for about 1.5 seconds. She didn't have any negative reactions but her face was burning red (seemed nervous). Is this because I have never kinoed her before? Is this a good reaction or a bad one?

If it is a bad reaction, how should I recover?
If it is a good reaction, how should I escalate?

good reaction, I love making girls blush.

escalate by giving her a sincere compliment while gauging if she'll let you kiss her(like if she looks at your lips or licks hers, dont worry itll be obvious)
 

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kiss? I'm pretty sure if she wont mind me doing it but she will be so embarrased in front of her friends and classmates! keep in mind we are still in grade 9. Where should I kiss her? Will she get turned off?
 

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kiss? I'm pretty sure if she wont mind me doing it but she will be so embarrased in front of her friends and classmates! keep in mind we are still in grade 9. Where should I kiss her (in class, or where no-one is there)? Will she get turned off?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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antidonjuan said:
kiss? I'm pretty sure if she wont mind me doing it but she will be so embarrased in front of her friends and classmates! keep in mind we are still in grade 9. Where should I kiss her (in class, or where no-one is there)? Will she get turned off?

Ah NoW I understand ur in 9 grade that why you seem alittle weird. Wow.

I assumed u were in 11 or 12.

Ha dont kiss then in public, in private maybe but shell most likely react weird to It(shes still too immature and youll become clingy along with her).

Do what feels natural follow your gut.
 
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