"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sbgm

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What is the best thing to do when the girl is teasing you by rejecting you when kinoing? More kino? Should I wait some time and then try again? (worth to know, she is just teasing me, I know it)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Themanthatcan

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As long as your completely sure it's teasing.......There's alot of things you could do.Yeah,more kino, maybe.I think It'b be best to just say something like "I'm sorry, you've been shunned" and completly ignore her.If she interested,most of the time she'll kino you back.Then pull the line out "HEY,no touching. I, do all the touching." or something like that.Make it funny.Make it fun.
 

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You need to turn the situation round. BE THE PRIZE. At the moment you are letting her be the prize. Depending what level of rapport you have with her.

Make her qualify to you.
 

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Go to the bible, almost all you need to know about Kino is there. If you Kino wrongly, you might be mistakenly portray yourself as a pervert.
 

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sbgm said:
What is the best thing to do when the girl is teasing you by rejecting you when kinoing? More kino? Should I wait some time and then try again? (worth to know, she is just teasing me, I know it)
Do you mind giving an example of how she teases you by rejecting your kino?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cod3r

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If she's saying things along the lines of...

"Stop touching me" or reaching in her purse for some sort of mace product or one of its derivatives, I'd spec she wasn't teasing..

One way you can tell if you're doing kino right... she ACCEPTS it


-Cod3r
 
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