"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kino or Take her out?

JHeights83rd

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Hey whats up guys here on SS
I need your help on this situation. I have this girl i talk to a lot in my class. Im real funny and sometimes witty with her, and I think I could get her. I never kino her. I was wondering if i should try to hold her hand after class, which i dont really wanna do b/c its not my thing, or i could be like 'yo wanna chill with me on Friday' and then start doing **** like that after ive made plans with her. Its the type of situation where i see her twice a week b/c i have class with her so i never showed any interest in her (by calling her up and asking her to chill or something like that) But thing is im really not smooth at kino and i would find myself either forgetting about it or forcing that ****. But with chilling, she might just take it as friends chilling. any advice appreciated. one
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt

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Kino is the key here. Girls who trust you and are comfortable with you will let the kino roll...and those that dont let me give you a example; chick at work(she has had the same bf for three years),I crank up the ****y and funny,she starts the kino by hitting my arm or shoulder or grabbing me saying "your bad",but as soon as I tickle her she draws the limit. Happens over and over. Funny how she thinks its a one way road huh? She knows that the moment she lets ME have my way physically with her then I win,her pants will be down in 10 minutes. I will change that in time.
 
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