"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KINO on a friendly outing...

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so ur out with a female friend (movies,mall,bowling etc.) and u dont necessarily want to be in the friend zone with this chick...how far do u go with the kino??

also what can u do to get her thinking of u in more of a bf way?

thanx
 

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Well you do have to be careful with kino. It shouldn't be blatantly sexual (at least not at first..).

Basically kino is just friendly touching. You touch her as your walking by, "accidentally" brush your hand against hers, touch her to emphasize a point, after a joke, etc..

And basically you do this and wait for how she responds. If she acts negatively, like pulls away or gets some hideous look on her face like "wtf are you doing", then you know to lay off the kino she is not interested. If she acts postively, she smiles, she doesn't draw away from you, *if she reciprocates you can pretty much say that her IL is high.. and then its kind of like anti-up. You kino, she kinos back.. then you do it a little more sexual to see how far it goes. T-dog has a great post in the bible about all of this if you really want to know about it.

Good luck.
 

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ive read it and its awesome i was just wonderin about kino on a friend level
 

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Kino - Touching that displays romantic intrest...

How muck kino do I use? - You touch her in any way you can that displays romantic intrest but doesn't make her think "wow, he's touching me" instead, she should be preoccupied in the moment.

When you shake someones hand when you first meet htme,do you ever think "omg, I'm touching him!" no, you just do it. When you lightly touch her arm as you make a point she should think "wow, he's right, thats a good point" and as your laughing together you squeeze her love handle she should think "omg he's so funny!"

capisce?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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