I'mBETTERthanMYSTreY
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8) there is absolutely no way to get kino, withought a girl pulling away...if there is a way what are some kino rountines?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
KINO! is ****ing IMPOSSIBLE!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
build rapport and comfort first. Don't overdo it in the beginning. It has to seem genuine and not forced. You will learn to calibrate it, just remember don't overdo it in the beginning. Good opening kino could be a light "guiding" touch in the small of the back while holding a door open, playful shoulder punch(very light), etc.
I'mBETTERthanMYSTreY
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i'm trying to find which kino is the best one right now i'm high fiving everybody but I don't know how to escalate from there!!!:cuss:
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
kino is natural. Maybe your doing it wrong.
comic_relief
comic_relief
Kino is not very hard at all...just flow with things and don't make it obvious that you are doing it on purpose. Avoid watching your hand while you do it, just come off as natural and carefree. Arm/shoulder touches at first if you do not know her very well...if she touches you at all think of it as her marking territory and you can touch her back in that same spot...unless its your chest...then you gotta be a badass to do that back. haha
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Just give it practice. I'm getting pretty decent at it now, especially at the bar with a drink or two in me. I used to naturally do it by instinct, then felt uncomfortable doing it... now I'm starting to get the hang of it again.
I always like arm touching to emphasize a point when I am speaking to a female. Like...
"yada yada"
"oh yea?"
"yea definitely" <-- touch their arm at that point in the convo
what I have to improve now on is not looking down as I do it, but rather maintaining eye contact while using kino... once i can pull that off... oooooh yeah
I always like arm touching to emphasize a point when I am speaking to a female. Like...
"yada yada"
"oh yea?"
"yea definitely" <-- touch their arm at that point in the convo
what I have to improve now on is not looking down as I do it, but rather maintaining eye contact while using kino... once i can pull that off... oooooh yeah
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Take up partner dancing and you'll learn how to do it properly. Good touches and leads are essential in leading the woman to do the steps you want. That's the groundwork for kino techniques.
You need to work on the normal kinos first and get good at that before you try more seductive ones. The touches have to be light but firm (as in you're giving her a clear lead/indication). If it's a too rough one, it's like you're shoving or groping her. If it's not firm, you'll be the creepy or limp guy.
During your interaction, there will be certain points where her attraction to you (what some folks call Buying Temperature) spikes up, like just after you made her laugh, or you've given her a worthy compliment for something cool she's done. That's when you kino her. There are a lot more to it, but that's the basic.
Anyway, like I said, take up dancing. It'll become natural to you. When you have good musicality and control over your techniques, posture and body movements, you'll learn to channel your moods through your touches, body language and leads, to her body.
You need to work on the normal kinos first and get good at that before you try more seductive ones. The touches have to be light but firm (as in you're giving her a clear lead/indication). If it's a too rough one, it's like you're shoving or groping her. If it's not firm, you'll be the creepy or limp guy.
During your interaction, there will be certain points where her attraction to you (what some folks call Buying Temperature) spikes up, like just after you made her laugh, or you've given her a worthy compliment for something cool she's done. That's when you kino her. There are a lot more to it, but that's the basic.
Anyway, like I said, take up dancing. It'll become natural to you. When you have good musicality and control over your techniques, posture and body movements, you'll learn to channel your moods through your touches, body language and leads, to her body.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I saw your name and I had to laugh...
:crackup:
Here is a pickup tools that most people don't know about...
- If a chick feels an emotional spike you can kino and she won't resist, if she does then her BT isn't at the level for her to do that yet, but you can always keep the interaction going and pump her up more and try that exact same kino.
- If you have a strong frame you can get away with anything...(Jliax face lick opener comes to mind lol)
- You can kino a chick while giving her a cold read (You can demonstrate anything that has to do with kino)
Yea thats enough to get your escalation handled.
:crackup:
Here is a pickup tools that most people don't know about...
- If a chick feels an emotional spike you can kino and she won't resist, if she does then her BT isn't at the level for her to do that yet, but you can always keep the interaction going and pump her up more and try that exact same kino.
- If you have a strong frame you can get away with anything...(Jliax face lick opener comes to mind lol)
- You can kino a chick while giving her a cold read (You can demonstrate anything that has to do with kino)
Yea thats enough to get your escalation handled.
I learned to use kino from my friend just invade thier private space by sitting really close and letting your body (shoulders, arm, leg,) rub up against hers ,side by side not face to face don't use your hands at first and just act like it's nothing if she pulls away just relax don't try and force just act like it's natural for you to sit close to people this way you can guage if she's interested or not ,go slowly, the trick is flirting in ****y funny way and at the same time brushing up against her, then if she's comfortable with you brushing up against her start using your hands, grab her biceps, flirt, kiss her shoulder she'll love it if you know how to play, you'll notice her start to brush up against you, slap you, hit you, all in a playful way. then when you see her again just sit very close, brush up against her, like this is what you do naturally to everybody.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
yea .. its best thing to touch them all the time .. for example when i talk to a girl i hold my hand on her back , tickle her on stomach , touch something that they have ( necklace and these kind of things ) ..
This is a MUST DONE . Cuz when you do this they will get comfortable with you ..
Ive seen drastic changes in relationship between me and girls since im using KINO
..Best thing to do ..
Peace
This is a MUST DONE . Cuz when you do this they will get comfortable with you ..
Ive seen drastic changes in relationship between me and girls since im using KINO
..Best thing to do ..Peace
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
I wouldn't suggest tickling her stomach unless you're congruent with it. If at first you started just touching her shoulder and then you start tickling her the next time you meet her, she'll probably get a little creeped out. If you can establish yourself as the touchy-feely tickly sort of person (some can pull it off), then you can do that.