"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kino in the classroom...

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Is kino appropriate anywhere? I don't mean anywhere on her body, but in setting sense (such as a classroom). I'm just wondering 'cause we got new seats in math and (if you've read my other post) I now sit next to the girl that might be attracted to me. Our seats are up towards the front, so I'm worried that people might see me touching her and think I'm a perv or something...any ideas on how to use kino in a subtle (but effective) way?

Thanks for advice...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you are trying to get her attention, just say "hey (insert name here) , how's it goin?" and try to put your hand on her shoulder or somethin like that. Don't make it look like you planned it though. Pull it off as if its like you do it to everyone. I wouldnt suggest to do it in a classroom. I mean, you can use kino, but definitely not as much as you could with her alone
 

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Kino doesn't necessarily have to be like giving her a massage. Grabbing her arm to get her attention, or playfully pushing her shoulder would work well in a situation like yours.
 

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Kino is easy somewhat... Just when you get a chance touch her... get it so its something normal to you. i've been kinoing lately and i dont even have to think about it anymore... one thing that i noticed though, the girls i kino, kino back but they dont know that i have an attraction for them. they think im just really friendly.... i've talked to the girls on the phone and told them that i wanna hang out cus i liek them but they never believe me.... in high school kino works good, but for the girl to really know you like her... u got to be sweet at least for the girls who are still virgins that i know of
 

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if she is sitting next to you, and has her arms resting on the desk you could lift one of hers up and 'pretend' to read the book which her arm was covering.

also blow into her ear, they like that!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Write **** on her book instead of sayin it to her, make sure yor teacher ain't close by, just brush by her arm and touch it gently. After a class or to get in there like swimwear ma man and take her number and her virginity (if she is one?)
 

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First thing you do is disregard what everybody just told you because it was mostly bull****.

Next thing is, there is no "appropriate" kino. Kino (like what fezz said) is just a natural way of communicating with people. Thats all it is(atleast thats all you want other people to know). When you use kino effectively, you do not HAVE to use it on everybody. If youre asking for hugz, and a guy wants to give you one, you cant say no though, you gotta grunt and bare that one lol.

Examples

Nice ring, hold her hand stroke the ring. Gotta be natural tho dont be afraid.

Nice earing/ push her hair back and admire. while holding her hair back a bit away from her ear. Not too long tho.

Nice bracelet same deal.

Cool socks, pull her sock elastic back and snap it on her lol.

Want some help with that math problem? Lean over her chair.

Never ever ever EVER EVER EVER EVER back any from an attractive girl if she gets in your bubble of space a foot or less or wheever around you. Stand as you had been and incorporate anything u want justdo NOT move back.


just flirt dude, and dont listen to anybody that says guys dont flirt.

guys that dont flirt only take their hand home on saturday night.
 
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