"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

kino in the car journey

Gee

Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
UK
i have a date next monday and im driving us to a show. its about an hours drive and i was wondering how to apply kino or if i shoukd apply it at all during the car trip. the most i could do is touch her arm or hand (if theyre resting on her legs) or her thigh but wouldnt be able to look at her as my eyes would have to be on the road.

should i just touch her arm sometimes or leave the kino until the show.

BTw ive read the PUA bible thing that a mod gave me a link to. very useful :)


EDIT. i accidentally posted this thread 3 times. it wont let me delete any of them =\
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
ROFL thx for reminding me why i dont come to this website anymore for advice
 

Qmanchoo

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2005
Messages
188
Reaction score
1
Location
Boston, MA
A rare martial art style only taught by SuperGigaloDJ. It's used to bltch slap women just at the right time to get them turned on.

EDIT

In all seriousness...

Try this, it's worked well for me. If you're talking on your cell phone, or things get quiet...just at random reach over and give her leg a squeeze right by the knee, but don't look at her, maybe when you're leeting go let your fingers brush the top of her leg lightly. Just make sure you're at the point where she would like this not get creeped out by it.

I like closer to the knee because it's at a safe distance from the sweet spot. If she's not all that receptive it's not overly forward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Try to make one thread....not 3 @ss
Funny what desperation makes some guys do...
 

Gee

Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
UK
Originally posted by Qmanchoo


Try this, it's worked well for me. If you're talking on your cell phone, or things get quiet...just at random reach over and give her leg a squeeze right by the knee, but don't look at her, maybe when you're leeting go let your fingers brush the top of her leg lightly. Just make sure you're at the point where she would like this not get creeped out by it.

I like closer to the knee because it's at a safe distance from the sweet spot. If she's not all that receptive it's not overly forward.

wont that seem strange. randomly touching her leg and then letting go. she'll be thinking 'wtf'
 

Gee

Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
UK
Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Try to make one thread....not 3 @ss
well observed :rolleyes:

i said i accidentally made 3 threads, why comment on it. i tried to delete the other 2 but it says i dont have permission to access that page.
 
Top