"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kino in plain english

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Hey guys, i just wanted to post a thread devoted to kino cause its so essential for building a comfort level with the target. For those of you who don't know what kino is, basically, its touching the target (look up previous posts on kino that go more into detail as to what it does).

Basics:
Ok, basically, when I first meet a new girl, i immediately initiate kino with a unique handshake I declared my own (no one else but me and the target know it). This will make me unique to her, therefore, helping her remember me.
This actually happened to me the other day at school, my friend was talkin to his friend, a HB8 with a 10 ass, so i decided i would go talk to her.

Rocko: Dude, friend (don't wanna say his name), I can't believe how beastly you've gotten, looks like your on roids or somethin
(target laughs as does friend)
Rocko: (facing target) why hello there, I don't think I've ever met you
HB8: Hey, I'm HB8, what's your name? (extends her hand for a handshake)
Rocko: (ignore the question) damn, i like that henna tatoo (grab her arm and start touchin her wrist) wheres it from?

BLAH BLAH BLAH

Rocko: Damn, you seem pretty cool, can you keep a secret?
HB8: Of course!!
Rocko: no you can't, i don't believe it
HB8: I SWEAR!!! (grabbing my arm)
Rocko: Ok, since i can trust you and you seem cool enough, i think you are worthy of your own special handshake.

She laughs, and i show it to her, next time i saw her we did our handshake like we had known each other for a while. She started talkin to me about track, so i said "damn your so full of yourself" She made a sad face, so i stuck my hand out as if to apologize, and then as she was about to grab my hand, i slapped hers. We both laughed (by doing this, you are gaining control of her. If you simply insult your target, it lowers her emotional level, but by apologizing, you are only giving her the control, so if you slap her wrist or sumthin like that, it gives you control and simple kino).

Remember, always be playful with one another. I tell girls to bite me (literally), then when they do, i do it back to them, or threatin them by saying that if they do it again I'll have to kiss them (its magic how they keep biting). Or when you are bored, ask for a massage, if they hesitate, you can freeze them out, give them the cold shoulder until they give in. If they ask for a massage, you tell them that you need one first to jump start your super massaging hands (If you don't know how to give a decent massage, practice, girls love that **** and it gives you major kino points). But only give massages if you are getting something in return, to keep you in control. I've lost a few girls that way.

if they say that they are bad at giving massages, just tell em "well, i have been known to give an awesome massage, maybe i can teach you, what are you doing on Saturday (anyday of the week)."

If you want to find out some other ways of developing from a massage to a kiss, just creep your hands up to the neck, and then the cheek, and then gently touch the lips (again golden if you are alone, and know the girl, don't recommend doing it if you just met). Look at her and ask her the age old question:

"Do you want to kiss me?"

If you read the game, you will know what to say after, but if you didn't, here's what you do in the situations to come:

She says yes, then you kiss her

She says maybe, you say "lets find out" and kiss her

She says no, you say "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind."

Overview:

Use kino whenever you can, you can touch while talking, or pointing out certain things. Massages are golden, especially if your good at them. Always remember to be playful and in control. Any questions / comments / or anything you want to add, feel free and good luck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok.
 

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hey nice post, could you please explain in detail how to freeze out in different ways in situations?
 
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well, i can take no credit for this part, its all thanks to Mission

Ok freeze outs are good, but of course you know that it only needs to be performed if the girl is being REALLY hesistant towards progressing your hook up. Also, make sure that you know your limits with the girl, if she is really adament about not going any further then stop, do not freeze her out, enjoy what is going on for the time being. However, you can use the freeze out to pretty much get everything else that you want (eg: once a girl I was getting with was a virgin but had still done everything else, I managed to get her naked the 2nd time I saw her even though she was slightly hesistant to let me go that far, I just knew I had to save the sex for another time, afterwards she told me how she couldn't believe how far she let me go)
Carrying on, in my experience the best way to perform a freeze out is NOT to just pull off of her and stop, that just pisses her off and then you aren't getting any. The real trick to it, is to find something she really likes (kissing her neck, etc) and then take it away from her, tease her with it, so if she liked having her neck kissed, stop kissing it and then breathe heavily near it like you are going to kiss it, but don't. Also a fun thing to do is to actually tease the girl into doing something you want, say you want to get her jeans off but she is reluctant, here is a good trick, kiss her down her whole body, and then start undoing her pants, she may say "no don't take off my pants" and you say, "im not taking them off" you don't take them off, you just pull apart where the zipper is, and kiss all around that area, this drives girls nuts because you are teasing that whole area without actually pleasing her, do that on and off for a while and you should be able to get those pants, and that thong off

Now if you want to full out freeze her out, just stop doing whatever your doing, and make a game of it, do it in a funny way as well, so get off her and say, "well if we aren't going to do that them im done!" in a goofy tone, and then look up and around, anywhere but at her, if you do it right she will try and attract your gaze, but don't let her, let her start teasing you, have some fun with it. She will likely get very into the idea and do whatever it takes to get your attention. If she responds poorly to this however, just look at her and seriously say, "hey I was just joking" and kiss her gently.

--Mission
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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