kino in everyday life

[suaveplayer]

hey guys,
when i read about kino, a lot of the stuff seem really intimate, like something you would do to a person who is attracted to you or your gf. what kinds of kino can you do on a friend/accquaintance/stranger? can yu give me real life situations?

THanks

 

[The Gamer]

Kino in an everyday situation?

You walk towards an attractive coworker who you are trying to manuvure past. You make yourself noticed, give a nice bright smile and gently put your hand on the small of her back as you walk past.

Your chillin with your friends and your throwing jokes around, one of your friends is taking the brunt of the abuse and is having a bad day. You slap him on the arm of pat him on the back to make his lighten up.

It's simple man. The key to kino is to use it WHEN YOU WANT TO. When you feel the first inclination that touching the other person (while talking, etc.) will help you get your point across, you just do it. Don't second guess your touching unless you notice someone who isn't taking to kindly to it (ie: moving back, closing their body posture).

 

[War Against Betaism]

When I'm walking in a large crowd, I usually maneuver my way around by lightly touching people on the back's even if I don't know them like the above mentioned. However I don't make eye contact with them, and tell them "excuse me". In the corner of your eyes you can usually see this surprised and submissive look on their face, it gives you some power.

When you're talking with someone, just lightly touch them on the knee or on the shoulder. When a girl usually takes a picture, I go over and tell them I want to see it, and I kind of touch them on the forearm that's holding the camera.

I uploaded some videos about a kino video that I found, it's really helpful. This is the first of 8 segments.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI

 

[CJDragon]

When you meet someone for the first time shake their hand or in the right situations kiss a ladies hand. If you're whispering to someone put your hand on their shoulder. When you see a girl you know get in the habit of hugging them when you say hello and goodbye. When you've been out in the cold say so and put your hands on the girls face to show her. If a girl is wearing an interesting necklace or earring or such, take hold of it when you comment. It's all about getting used to touching without seeing it as a solely sexual thing. Rather than coming up with a list of "tricks" that allow you to initiate kino (which is the route I took to begin with) just get used to it to the point where you don't notice anymore.

The way I started out getting used to kino was by play fighting with girls. Poking, pushing, tickling... when you're play fighting it's really easy to get used to kino. Anyway, this was my first post, so sorry if it wasn't very clear, but hope it helps