Kino idea

[Hellomisslady]

Hey guys,

so I might be going over to this girls house to watch a movie or something soon. I had this idea last night, do you guys remember the nervous game? The one where you put your hand on their knee and then slowly move it up their leg asking if they're nervous. Do you guys think this would be a good idea to kind of break the ice sexually?

 

[Desdinova]

That's one of those stupid teenager games.

Kino is best when it feels natural. There's tons of way to initiate it. You can 'accidently' rest your leg against hers, you can get into a tickle fight, poke her in the arm playfully for no reason, etc.

You need to take small steps to elevate her comfort level if you want to become sexual with her. Making her feel uncomfortable will get you labelled as 'creepy'.

 

[Hellomisslady]

I have a good thing that works for me, but I'm not gonna say it cuz it's something that came naturally and I'm not gonna reveal it to the nerds on this site.

why wouldn't you help out other people who helped you?.. That's pretty lame.

 

[SandHawk]

Well, kino is SUPPOSED to be natural, like many others told you. And depending on your initial kino with the girls, it also depends on how to proceed when she's coming over to your house.

How touchy/feely are you with her initially? I start kino really early in the sense of just touching arms, hands, and escalate that further to her back and sometimes neck. When I'm in a location with music, I dance with them, holding them just above their butt or sides/stomach.

If you haven't been extremely touchy yet, up the touchness. Just her arms, hands, you know. If you want to offer her a drink, take her hands in yours and ask if what she wants. Brush THE OUTSIDE of her leg a bit by accident but don't apologize for it. Touch her back, tickle her, poke her sides a bit, brush hair out of her face.

Plenty of touching to do, just take it slowly and build it up. You want her to be comfy with you touching her. And this is exactly why I'm touchy/feely with EVERYONE, even guys, but in a different way. It becomes automatic, and everyone accepts it, because you touch everyone in the same way.

This includes hugging. I hug my male friends, but in a slightly different way than girls, but I still show people that I care greatly about my friends and ain't afraid to show it.