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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kino at Bars/Clubs

Vikman

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Is it okay to use Kino at Bars and Clubs?

Let's say I meet a girl at a bar; we're talking for a few minutes and everything is going great. Should I use some kino?
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daygameguy

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Vikman said:
Is it okay to use Kino at Bars and Clubs?

Let's say I meet a girl at a bar; we're talking for a few minutes and everything is going great. Should I use some kino?
You can kino escalate on a girl in isolation. I see it happen all the time in clubs.

Without kino there is no game. But learn to kino properly and don't be one of those creepy drunk guys.
 
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