"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kino analys

Hildegard

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Sup Guys,

i wanted to know the diffrence between the 'obvious' kino, like when a girl is rubbing your arm and similiar and
"occasional", "oh our arms/ legs touched while doing somethin by accident" kino
Makes it a difference, if i kino a girl this way and does getting kinoed by a girl in the 2nd way make any difference/ is it an invidence to anything ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Real Talk

Don Juan
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kino is one of those things that if looked at the wrong way can lead down a path of over-analysing.

Kino is something YOU DO to build comfort with the female. If you're thinking about all the little nuances of the touching going on between you to It's gonna stress you out like none other, and you won't even enjoy the interactions themselves.

You're thinking too much. There's nothing to analyze as far as what you're asking.
 

Groovy

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I've read here that most of the times when girls kino you it's intentional, even if it looks like an accident. I think it's true. And it probably is a sign of interrest... But sometimes they just do it to confuse you! Don't think way too much about these things. If she really is interrested I think you will know, just have to pay attention. But yeah, don't over-analyse!! Lots of girls out there. I think you'll be alright.
 

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Hildegard said:
if i kino a girl this way and does getting kinoed by a girl in the 2nd way make any difference/ is it an invidence to anything ?
It works both ways IME - A bit of "accidental" kino from me is a good way to see if she is ready for a more deliberate escalation and you can usually take it that if she is dishing it out, even by "accident" she is looking for or soon will be willing to let you take the initiative and escalate. :)

And don't waste too much time thinking about it. You will only end up stressing and not changing the emphasis smoothly. :)
 
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