"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I saw this on another forum and thought it was a sick idea.


The game is simple, the first person creates a situation and the next person has to write down an opener based on that situational opener and must be in the moment and congruent to the setting. This is designed to allow you practice natural openers rather than use canned material!


Situation: Your standing around waiting for the bathroom, and a hot girl walks up behind you waiting for the bathroom herself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ_Hero said:
Get the fúck away from her if she's waiting outside the men's room.
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LOL that cracked me up bro.

Shes waiting for the bathroom door that's labeled women, that's next to the mens bathroom.
 
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DJ_Hero said:
I don't mean to ruin this thread but thinking of openers before you meet a girl, doesn't that make it canned?
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In a way yea it is. I was thinking that after the thread but, there's been times where a simple situation comes up and i cant think of anything to say in the moment. If you can think of a situation that you'll possibly be in at some point, (on the train, in the airport, waiting for food...) in the future and a hot girl decides to walk up next to you and you have no idea what to say....you see where im getting at.
 
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