King Flex interview

[mexican_player2]

He is a game advisor, his teachings are very different from what you preach here, but i find it that he is the best, i recommend the mack within, is nothing like all those dating gurus teach. it changed my life for real.

Well, here is an interview i found, is very interesting, also you might find this interview with a lot of ghetto language, but in his books he talks in a very proper manner and easy to understand.
Also his book aplied to all kind of women in all cultures. dont let the image fool you

This is the guy who appeared on mtv Made, where he helped a geek to become a mack


the read is worth every minute.
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ThaFormula.com - What made you decide to write this
book?


Tariq - Well I been in the hustle game for a long ass
time. I'm not that old, but I been in the game since I
was real young and I earned a lot of stripes in the
game and people was hearin’ about my techniques in the
game and they would always ask me a lot of questions
about how I spit at broads. They would tell me “nigga
you need to write a book about your ****!” You need to
break it down and you know let people know about the
game. "The Art of Mackin’" is actually my second book.
My first book was called "A Gangsta Speaks Out." I
talked about a lot of social issues and I wanted that
book to be first so people wouldn't say “well why
would you put out something like The Art of Mackin’?”
“You should have put something out pro black or
positive,” and I did that already and it didn't sell
that well. The first book sold about 1,500 copies. It
got critical acclaim, it just didn't sell that well.
When I put out "The Art of Mackin’," that **** took
off like hot cakes. It has sold over 100,000 copies in
a little over a year.


ThaFormula.com - Financially, how good has this book
been for you?


Tariq - It's been very good man. I mean I was
financially straight you know before the book came
out. It just upgraded the game a little bit. It just
added a couple of more zeroes to my bank account. I
was already getting’ my hustle on and stackin’ paper.
It just upgraded a little bit. Another reason why I
wanted to put it out is because there are so many
relationship books for women out. They got whole
sections for women tellin’ them how to get a man, how
to marry a man, how to get a millionaire, how to trap
a man, and all this **** and there was nothing for
guys, especially young guys in our demographic. So I
said let me just do something that has never been done
before. Just really break the mackin’ game down
without really being on some ego **** because you know
most mack books or pimps books are like
autobiographies. Guys will brag about how they were
the greatest pimps and they had a million hoes and all
this stuff. But I didn't want to do a book like that.
I wanted to do a book that would specifically help
other people out. In the art of mackin’, I talk about
myself in like 2 paragraphs.


ThaFormula.com - How much does looks have to do with
being a mack and where would you rate looks?


Tariq - On a scale of 1 to 10 looks is 8. It's really
last on the list. The first thing is confidence and
number 2 is verbal conversation and looks is really
low on the totem pole. A lot of guys try to think like
men when it comes to figuring out women and that's
where guys mess up. Men are physical creatures. We
will date a ***** solely based on looks. The *****
could be a crack head working at Burger king but if
she has a phat ass and a cute face, niggaz will still
**** with her. Females date dudes because of the way
they make them feel emotionally. Females are more
intrigued by what they hear. Guys are more intrigued
by what they see. So if you wanna get a guy, it's all
in the eyes. If you wanna get a broad it's all in the
ears, so you really got to spit game at a broad. I
tell guys all the time, it don't matter how you look.
There was a movie called the Elephant Man, it came out
about 22 years ago and it was a true story about this
dude that was born with a big ass head. He was ****ed
up and people were throwin’ rocks at him. It was real
sad. He became a circus freak and he was ****ed up and
at one point in his life he just said **** it, “I’mma
just get me a nice coat,” and he put a table cloth
over that head and threw on a little derby and he just
started lettin’ females hear his voice and the
mutha****a got a love interest. In the movie the
Elephant man has a *****! So I tell dudes that if that
ugly ass Elephant Man can get a *****, you can get a
*****. It's all about your conversation.


ThaFormula.com - If you looked like The Elephant Man,
do you think you still would have wrote that book?


Tariq - Yeah! Because I see good-looking guys in good
shape at the clubs who don't get no play because looks
last like 2 or 3 minutes with a broad. You might get a
female or chickenhead who might see a dude and say
“oh, he's cute, Ill give him some *****,” or whatever.
He might luck up on it, but it's really the
conversation. Chris Rock made a good joke when he said
a man will **** an ugly broad, but he won't be seen in
public with her. A woman will be seen in public with
an ugly man, but she won't **** him. So you know it's
all about the conversations you have man. You got to
really intrigue a woman mentally. Women are all about
fantasies. We teach women that you know you can sit
around and fantasize and dream and **** like that so
if you cater to her fantasies she will project
whatever she wants to onto you.


ThaFormula.com - What advice would you give a guy that
constantly gets rejected by women and is just going
through some tough times as far as getting’ a female
goes?


Tariq – A lot of guys, their egos are very delicate
and when you step to a ***** you can't be steppin’ to
her with your ego on your shoulder. Everybody gets
dissed. That's one thing you have to realize. Even the
finest *****es will get dissed. For every one female
that will diss you, there is twenty females that will
be cooperative with you. Sometimes it has nothing to
do with them. The Female might be on some other ****.
A lot of females go out just to get attention or
whatever and she might be going through some spousal
abuse so there is a million things that could be going
on in a *****es mind. The thing is you have to let her
choose you. That's a very delicate subject. Unless a
woman chooses you, whatever you say or whatever you do
is not really gonna get her. You gotta let her choose
and the way you let her choose is really step to her
on a courtesy level. That means you spit at her
without lettin’ her know your spittin’. When the
average guy walks up to a female at a club, the first
thing is, "Hey, what's your name?" or "You gotta man?"
"Can I have your number?" That's very impersonal
because she knows that it's not about her. She knows
that you don't give a **** about her. You just want a
*****. She knows this, so you can't come across like
that. You have to come across like your genuinely
trying to get to know her as a person first and then
give her the option to give you some body language and
cooperation to let you know that's she feelin’ you. So
I tell dudes to step to a ***** on a courtesy level.
That means that if I'm like at a supermarket and I see
a cute broad instead of me runnin’ up to her and
spittin’ at her like I'm tryin’ to get some ass or I'm
trying to get a number, I step to her talking about
something that's according to the surroundings I'm in.
"Excuse me, do you know how to make a casserole?" You
just make up some **** about food. If your at a mall
and you approach a female, automatically her defenses
are gonna go up because she don't know where you
comin’ from, so she already has a set answer for a
nigga who wants to spit. “Can I have your number?” “No
I got a boyfriend.” You know the same old routine
****. So you gotta throw a curve ball at her. If you
see a broad at the mall, again on a courtesy level you
say some **** like, "Excuse me I never been to this
mall before, do you know where I can get some nice
clothing for men?" Now her defenses are gonna go down
because you’re not trying to spit. So she will be
like, “well you can go upstairs, there is a store
upstairs.” So you say ok, cool and then, "so who are
you here at the mall with?” Well, I'm here with my
girlfriend and then you say "so what did you get today
at the mall?” She will say, "Well I got this and that
or whatever". And I would say, "So you must live
around here or something." You’re on a courtesy level.
You’re talkin’ to the ***** like she's one of the
homies and your giving her an opportunity to choose
you because you haven't chosen her yet. You ain't
makin’ it seem like she's doing you a favor by sittin’
there talkin’ to you, and that's how you got to come
across with broads. That way you won't get dissed,
because there is not a reason to get dissed. You get
dissed when you make an offer to a ***** and she
rejects it. She can't reject courtesy. She can't
reject a mutha****a that says, "Hey how you doing,
nice weather." What she gonna say, "Oh no thank you."
No thank you what *****? What you talkin’ about?

 

[mexican_player2]

ThaFormula.com - So when you spot those types of
signals, do you just say forget it and walk away?


Tariq - Nah, you just be courteous first because the
only reason females do that is when the guy is coming
on too strong. But 9 out of 10 times if your coming at
a female and your in a social spot, they want a
mutha****a to spit at them. 90% of the time if a *****
gets dressed up, she wants a mutha****a to spit, but
you gotta make her earn your attention and really feel
her out, and if your talkin’ to her on a courtesy
level, there ain't gonna be no reason for her to be
all balled up, looking crazy and all that ****. Women
get like that when they are put in an uncomfortable
situation, and they get uncomfortable when the guy is
being forceful. You know **** like, “Alright write
your number down”, “can I get your number”, “How come
I ain't got your number yet?” “You got a man?” “What's
your man got to do with me?” That type of **** makes a
***** be like, "Oh damn!"


ThaFormula.com - Why do you think that approach
stopped working?


Tariq - Because it's impersonal. That's primitive cave
man games. That's what I call it and guys have
resorted back to the caveman mentality when it comes
to spittin’. Back in the ancient days, the Egyptians
were the original macks. The Egyptians had Pharaohs,
they had Kings. If you look at the Egyptian paintings,
you have Egyptians up there with about 4 or five
*****es chillin’” with him. Those were the original,
“squares” is what I call them. They didn't really have
any game. They just, if a dude in a cave saw a *****
walkin’ down the pathway, he'll hit her in the head
with a stick and drag the ***** in the cave by her
hair and **** her. So you know, we got guys walkin’
around now with that mentality. Just primitive game,
they ain't really focusing on their verbal. They will
just be pullin’ on a *****, grabbin’ on her hair,
talkin’ dumb ****. There is no creativity to it and a
female will feel like she's lowering her standards to
cooperate with a dude who obviously has no game, or
who is clearly not interested in her. He just wants a
female, and females like I said can see through that
****. They can see it a mile away.


Tariq - 90 percent of the guys out there say the same
exact ****. That's what guys don't know. "Oh! You got
a man, what's your man got to Do with me?" Females
hear that **** about 100 times a night, but when you
step to her and you ain't on no, I'm jockin you, I'm
sweatin you, you’re trying to get to know her, then
she will be a little more cooperative. But don't get
me wrong, some *****es like when mutha****as spit to
them that dumb **** because they like the attention.
They love the attention. Attention for a woman is the
equivalent of an orgasm for a man. That's some very
important **** to remember. All men, we’re all about
the nut. It all boils down to bustin’ a nut or getting
power. Sex is a sense of power, getting money is a
sense of power. All guys have that. All women want
attention, being negative, positive or whatever,
everybody’s ***** wants to get some kind of attention
and attention is the equivalent of an orgasm. When a
woman goes out, she don't have to talk to anybody in
there. She will have everybody in there jockin’ her.
She's perfectly satisfied with that. When you go on a
date with a *****, she's gonna make a nigga earn that
orgasm like, “take me out”, “take me to dinner",
whoopty whoop. "Before you get the *****, you got to
do this, you got to do that!" You got to treat her the
same way as far as attention. But before you give her
attention or before I spit at you about exchanging
numbers, give me a reason to want to exchange numbers
with you *****! "What do you do for a living?" "Who do
you live with?" You got to make a ***** feel like
she's earning your attention, like you’re doing her a
favor. You'll be like, "ok well you seem cool, I'll
give you my number and I'll let you holla at me if you
cool." That's the attitude you got to have with a
*****.


ThaFormula.com - What is the best way for a guy to
approach a female. Do you lie or do you tell the
truth?



Tariq - There is no reason to lie, because when you
lie, you got to keep up that lie and that takes too
much energy. It's useless and that's the problem with
guys now. Guys are doing to much just to get some
*****. You ain't got to lie to a ***** about ****. If
your kind of embarrassed about your situation. Like
some dudes might be broke. In that situation you don't
lie, but you just be vague about your ****. If she's
like, "where do you live?" You say "ahh, I got a
little spot you know what I'm sayin’, I do my thang."
"But this ain't about me, this is about you, where you
live?" Always turn the **** back to her and women
don't mind that because women love talkin’ about
themselves. They don't have a problem talkin’ about
themselves. You get that ***** to talk about herself,
you in there.



ThaFormula.com - Now what about when your havin’ a
conversation and it seems like everything’s great, but
when you ask her out, she says no?



Tariq - A lot of times those women be havin’
boyfriends. The thing is when you meet a *****, don't
bull**** yourself. Guys will get so caught up in
bull****tin’ a *****, they start bull****tin’
themselves. Don't try to impress a *****, it's not
your job to impress a *****. That's like givin’ a
***** an orgasm for free. That's like you being a
***** for her if you keep trying to impress her and
buying roses, playing Brian McKnight in the background
on her voice mail and all that sympin’ ass ****. You
gotta spit at a *****, like if you wanna **** with me
you gotta take me out. You gotta come at her on that
****. You got to really establish a pimp/ho
relationship. Not necessarily puttin’ the ***** on the
track, but you gotta establish that pimp/ho
relationship, and mackin’ represents manhood. You just
being a man about yours. Then there’s the gentleman
bull****. Women will say they want a gentleman, they
want a nice guy, all that's bull****. Throw all that
out the window. Women will say they want one type of
man and then turn around and date the exact opposite
and the reason they do this is because they want to
come across as being complex. Complexity for a woman
is her biggest defense mechanism. You will never hear
a woman that says, "Yeah, my ex boyfriend, he was a
real gentleman." You will never hear that ****! It's
always, "he was an *******, he did this, the nigga
kicked my ass, he stole from me." That's what turns a
***** on. A nigga who didn't give a **** about her
really, and made the ***** earn her attention. Now you
can be nice to the ***** if she's your lady and all
that, but you got to make her earn your attention.
When you meet a broad, give her a chore, give her
something to do. You got to qualify the female you
**** with, because all females are different. There is
4 categories, The high class, the middle class, the
Chickenhead, and the Hoochie. So you got to find out
what type of female she is and tell her your game when
you spit at them. Say, "hey you seem cool, what don't
you take me out to the movies or somethin’." Now a
female who has got a little paper in her pocket, she
ain't got a problem with doing that, but a broke *****
can barely feed herself. She's looking to get what she
can get. That's why a true mack don't **** with a
broke *****. You should always get a ***** who is
qualified to bring something to the table.


ThaFormula.com - Now what about if the woman tells the
guy to take her out? Does this go for women to?


Tariq - Yeah, but as a mack, you got to get your
priorities in order. Guys be sending me letters
saying, "oh Tariq, I got a *****, I read your book and
I learned how to get *****es, but I stay at home with
my Parents and I don't know where I can take the *****
to **** her." I'm a mack, I'm not a real estate agent!
That's some **** you got to figure out.


ThaFormula.com - So before anything, you got to get
your **** together?



Tariq - Yeah, get your **** together, because if your
uncomfortable about something in your life. If your
uncomfortable about not having a job or still livin’
at home with your parents, it's gonna show in your
game. That's why confidence is number one on the list.
You got to be 100 percent confident and you’re
confident when your **** is together.

 

[mexican_player2]

ThaFormula.com - Now what about still livin’ at home with your moms?


Tariq - Then you got to hustle to get up out of there.
That's what you focus on first. I mean you can sneak
*****es around and all that ****, but your gonna get
like little hoodrat *****es, and your gonna be
uncomfortable when it comes to a top notch *****.



ThaFormula.com - So the only solution to that one is
to get the hell out of there?


Tariq - Yeah, just get your **** together, which is
not a hard thing to do. It's easier to get your ****
together, then to lie to a *****. It's harder to lie
and keep up the lie using all that energy lyin’,
frontin’ and perpetratin’, and going to your homies
house. That's time that can be used getting’ your ****
together. It's not hard to get your **** together, but
most people think it's easier to bull**** a ***** to
get some *****. When I was 17, I lived alone. I was in
the game at a young age. I lived by myself, so that's
why I learned a lot of ****. I started dealin’ with
top notch *****es at a young age and once you start
****in’ with some top notch Halle Berry type hoes,
them little bucket head hoes that you grew up with and
all that ****, you look at them differently. Your game
is on another level.



ThaFormula.com - Does it take some type of practice
for the average guy to reach that level?



Tariq - When you listen to mutha****as that's been in
the game, that helps out a lot.


ThaFormula.com - Now what about those guys that
approach a female, but get so nervous that they forget
what to say?



Tariq - Yeah, I had one of my students with this
problem. I was teachin’ him some game. I was tellin’
him to go to a club and holla at some females and he
was stuttering and stuff, kind of nervous. I was
tellin’ him there is no reason to be nervous. If you
step to a ***** on a courtesy level, there is no
reason to get nervous. In fact the worst thing a *****
can do is say no. Niggas be actin’ like the ***** is
gonna kill them. She won't say no if your sayin’ the
right **** to her. Niggas act like females are like
aliens from another planet. Them *****es are human too
and niggas be puttin’ to much value on these *****es.
A lot of these *****es ain't ****, and that's really
how you got to look at it. If the ***** is broke,
livin’ with her mom, workin’ a minimum wage job, the
***** don't scare me! That's the kind of attitude you
got to have. Why is she scaring you? Why is that
little broke ***** at the club scaring you? She ain't
****, and that's the mentality you have to have.



ThaFormula.com - So at this point in your life, is
there any type of woman that intimidates you?


Tariq - Hell nah, I **** with top notch, bad *****es.
I **** with the baddest *****es in the country,
because I'm one of the top notch niggaz in the
country. When I was coming up in the game and my ****
wasn't 100 percent tight, I still ****ed with bad ass
*****es. I learned not to put too much value on a
*****, because a ***** is a *****, she could be
replaced. There is 8 women in this country on an
average to every one dude. So why am I scared of this
*****. I'll just move on to the next broad. I ****
with celebrity broads. They are real cooperative with
the game. A lot of people are thinkin, "well you ****
with top notch broads because you have a lot of
paper." That's not it, because most *****es don't know
that I have Benzes and Lexus's. They don't know that
****. I try to keep that **** a secret when I'm
****in’ with a *****. I have dated females for months
and they never knew where I lived, or what I drove,
because I don't let my material items get a ***** for
me. Because when you let your material items get
*****es, you become less confident about yourself and
then you begin to identify your game with material
****. Like if you got a Benz and your Benz attracts
hoes, once your Benz is in the shop, you’re assed out.
You can't get a ***** no more. A lot of niggaz want to
get into the rap game and become a basketball player
or whatever to get *****es. I know a lot of rappers
and I see this all the time. When their **** is hot on
the charts, they get *****es. When they ain't got no
records out, them niggaz are in the club lookin’ crazy
ass hell. Lonelier then a mutha****a! So you got to
depend on game 100 percent. I get *****es 24 hours a
day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Any time I want
too. I don't need a mutha****in’ record or a contract
or none of that ****.



ThaFormula.com - What's the best exercise to do as far
as practice goes?



Tariq - The best exercise to do is just to use the
“courtesy level” when you step to a female, and plus
you got to have the confidence to back it up. If you
don't have the confidence to back it up, it's not
gonna work. If a guy is walkin’ up to a female and
he's unsure of himself, he's worried about his gear
not being as tight as it is, or worried about if his
momma is gonna page him so he can bring the car back
and all that ****, he's gonna walk up to the *****
with that lack of confidence showing. *****es can
smell insecurity a mile away. That's why I say you got
to have your **** together. So as a mack, your
priorities have to be in order. You got to work on
yourself first. Mackin’ is really 80 percent
self-improvement really. Because once you have your
**** together, *****es will gravitate to you, because
when your **** is together, your gonna hold your head
up high. Your gear is gonna be a little fly’er or more
coordinated. Not more expensive, but more coordinated.
Your **** is gonna be intact. Your gonna have more
authority in your voice when you know your **** is
intact. When you know you got a dollar in your pocket.
When you know you got your **** together at the crib.
Females gravitate towards that ****.

 

[mexican_player2]

ThaFormula.com - Now what about gear? Is that a big
thing?


Tariq - Well, you should be neat. You should have your
**** coordinated. Your clothes makes the man. It
attracts the type of females you wanna **** with. When
I go out with some of my partners, everybody dresses
differently. One of my friends dresses real mackish,
another dresses real trendy, and another dresses real
thugged out, and all three brothers get different type
of females. Like my partner who dresses like a mack,
that nigga gets like strippers and dancers and ****
like that. My partner who dresses trendy gets them
video type hoes. My partner who is thugged out gets
the little hoodrat *****es because that's what they
like. So it depends on the kind of ***** you like
****in’ with. Now I like strippers and hoes and top
notch *****es because at least they got some paper.
They can bring some **** to the table and plus they
are more receptive to give up some *****. Where as to
a chickenhead *****, or a broke *****, the ***** is
her trump card. A ***** needs her ***** to eat. That's
the only thing she's got going for her. A ghetto *****
holds on to her ***** sacred. The ***** be ****in’ the
same nigga she was ****in’ since she was 14 and she
broke and she wants a nigga to feed her, and you got
to take here, here and there. Oh nah, a ***** like
that has no value. I'm not doing all that ****.


ThaFormula.com - Now what about shape and looks, do
you think you would still be mackin’ if your were a
fat, bald headed ugly mutha****a?



Tariq - I got a partner who is one of my pimp friends,
he's a big ol’ nigga. Young cat who is big as hell,
but the nigga get hoes like a mutha****a. That nigga
got like 3 bad *****es. So I know it ain't about looks
because I see it everyday. I go out to the track. I
see little niggas that look like midgets with *****es
on the track. Looks ain't got **** to do with it man.
It's all about the conversation a mutha****a has.
Hell! Ja Rule is a sex symbol and if Ja Rule was a
little nigga workin’ at Kinkos or something, he
couldn't buy a *****! That nigga couldn't buy a
*****!! But they find him sexy because of his
confidence. So that's important man, because it ain't
about looks.

 

[mexican_player2]

Fukin so suave censorship, i all see is **** **** ***** ***** ******


anyway if someone wants the interview in a pdf format easy to read pm me

 

[mexican_player2]

chit, no comments?

i cant fukin understand why you believe all those bullchit simp teories and you cant recognize real game.

this board should be named sosymp.com

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

This is an awesome post, thankyou for typing this out dude, I agree with most of it, there are always our own individual strategies that we use that work for us but others don't use, keep on sarging. :yes:

 

[Jay Jay]

That **** was ****ing brilliant. I'm going to get my **** together so I can **** the **** out of alls those *****es and *****s!

Thanks!

JJ

 

[sparky0000]

I guess if you are a black guy in America this is your ticket, but I hardly see where this would help most. Getting beautiful girls is so simple. It definitely doesn't take a book or sitting at the feet of some "Wish I Was A Rap Star" type of guy. Most of the guys on here could get themselves a real beauty if they listened to me. It would take less than a month. You wouldn't have to read some guy's book either.