"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kinda wondering about this....women and marriage

KneghtRyder

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you older guys.

this is what I see, i m 26
women my age so far :
their lives are so much fun, they get a guy when they want, they have sex when they want, they party, never have to worrry about jobs education etc chase guys for looks..
i seem the young girls 18-22 ..they just fcck around like anything , drink, fucck any guy for looks ( of all things ) just party ...


NOW this is the AGE of women I Haven't seen yet, ( POST COLLEGE), just assuming this but corect me

then they realize that they need to get married, and they realize its really hard to get a guy to commit....and I BET ALOT OF THEM REmain UNmarried and are begin to get dumbfounded because guys were aplenty when they were all about having fun and sex when they were younger, but now when it comes to commitment they suddenly realize its a completely different ball game ( not in their favor).they are new young girls coming out every year 20K girls turn 18

DO YOU THINK THE MAJORITY of women experience this crisis and do you think they remain unmarried.. or is it a relatively EASY affair for a women to get married ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EVERY woman, I mean, EVERY one of them go through that period in thier lives when they have the tight body, The "I don't give a flying fvck" attitude, The balls.

But.

They wake up one morning and notice a wrinkle around thier eye, or a dimple in that once flawless ass, and realize "oh sh!t! I'm getting old!" " I really should start thinking about settling down, finding a "nice guy (AFC)" who'll take me at the doorstep with both hands clutching full bags of emotional luggage without any questions.

They realize that now thier options are limited to what they can grasp with greasy paws. While guys our age only get more experience and social value.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
EVERY woman, I mean, EVERY one of them go through that period in thier lives when they have the tight body, The "I don't give a flying fvck" attitude, The balls.

But.

They wake up one morning and notice a wrinkle around thier eye, or a dimple in that once flawless ass, and realize "oh sh!t! I'm getting old!" " I really should start thinking about settling down, finding a "nice guy (AFC)" who'll take me at the doorstep with both hands clutching full bags of emotional luggage without any questions.

They realize that now thier options are limited to what they can grasp with greasy paws. While guys our age only get more experience and social value.

nice :)
 

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Yes I think they feel the pressure, but not much more than guys. The older one becomes, the narrower the field of possible candidates becomes. As for looks, looks fade... it's that simple, and it happens to both sexes. Any relationship based soley on appearance, is doomed from the start. Although physical attraction is necessary, it is only one of a myriad of things to consider when choosing a mate for life. I feel sorry for anyone who gets stuck with a mate that only said yes because of their fear of getting old.
 

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This is how it works, we get better, they get old!! You are 26, way to young to get married.

Wait as long as you can and reach your financial dreams before you get married. Get a prenup!

Get married around 35 to a girl 10 years younger than you. Stay with her for 10 years and then get a new 25 year old girlfriend and marry her, than repeat as necessary.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are three stages to a woman's life:

*Will agree to dates, but won't show up, loves drama, sometimes seen crying about god-knows-what on a cell phone at nightclubs.

*Has a stable income, won't flake, no games, and has more chins than a chinese phone book, and she wonders why no hard working guy wants to stick around to support her 2 kids.

*The brief shining moment in between.

You've gotta catch them at that brief, shining moment. It's about 5 minutes long. Often, zero minutes in the U.S..
 

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Lol @ Faster's post


a vasectomy would be a good idea
for the OP (original poster)
Bank some sperm so you can have kids still....


Get IT , or THEY may get you .... mwahahaha.. j/k

:D

edit: Kids are a Dream-killer at this age, I'm avoiding it till after 35 at least
 
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