One thing that always happens when im with a girl for some reason my hands get cold. Yeah sounds strange right? Last nite a girl was laying down her had on my lap and i was kissing her a bit. I was moving my hand down her body and i was going for the fruit and she grabbed my hand and said my hands are cold. They don't warm up either its strange. This has stopped me many of times. Is this becuase im nervous? How do i overcome this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kinda wierd
- Thread starter Aerix
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Docs
Banned
Are you or your hands normally cold? If so, it could be due to bad circulation, not enough activity or a cool climate.
To make your hands warmer (from personal experience), lie down and rest, hands protected in your legs or underneath yourself. Do this for about 10 minutes or until the coldness goes away (cuddling works).
To prevent cold hands, make sure that about 20 minutes before you want them warm, to ensure that they are in a warmer climate and you get circulation going (jumping jacks, running, lifting something) to allow for the blood to warm up and to keep your hands warmer when you slow down.
Enjoy.
To make your hands warmer (from personal experience), lie down and rest, hands protected in your legs or underneath yourself. Do this for about 10 minutes or until the coldness goes away (cuddling works).
To prevent cold hands, make sure that about 20 minutes before you want them warm, to ensure that they are in a warmer climate and you get circulation going (jumping jacks, running, lifting something) to allow for the blood to warm up and to keep your hands warmer when you slow down.
Enjoy.
