kinda urgent: alone with 3 attractive women in a train compartment

[andreihaha]

Had to travel by train today. I'm now going back home, 6 1/2 hours road, on 3 different stations 3 pretty attractive women come into my 6-place compartment. 5 more hours to go, gonna be an afternoon/night ride. Thoughts?

P.S. I ain't afraid of no corona.

 

[andreihaha]

(not so great) update:
One of them just got off(the train) and was replaced by another one and some 60-year old dude who's only gonna travel for another hour.

 

[Black Widow Void]

If you're unsure which of the three women might be more receptive, you can use the 60 year old man as a pivot.
This way, you don't approach the 'un or less receptive girl' and then have to do "clean up on isle three" in order to make the other girls feel special.

Engage the man in conversation and then subtlety look at the body language of the women. Next topic, make it a question. Then, invite the other women in on the conversation.

After you have a better gauge on the more interested woman, direct your conversation to her.

 

[andreihaha]

If you're unsure which of the three women might be more receptive, you can use the 60 year old man as a pivot.
This way, you don't approach the 'un or less receptive girl' and then have to do "clean up on isle three" in order to make the other girls feel special.

Engage the man in conversation and then subtlety look at the body language of the women. Next topic, make it a question. Then, invite the other women in on the conversation.

After you have a better gauge on the more interested woman, direct your conversation to her.

Good advice.

(Probably the last) update:
The most attractive one was the one that left, another one is typing furiously on a laptop like a business woman, while the last seems quite entitled for a really young one(18-20).
In retrospect, the more attractive one lived 5 hours away from me so it's not really an option.

Now I wasn't planning on everything and these were probably not the right women for me, but still, when you have a chance, take it!
I still feel like I should have done something. Better to get a rejection than uncertainty.

Any other ideas to isolate one for the future? I don't really travel by train.

 

[Black Widow Void]

All was not lost on your train travel. If this has prompted you to improve upon your approach game, then you'll become an improved version of yourself (something that I believe we should practice on every opportunity).

Here are my two favorite "go to" approaches:

If you've heard the woman talk, you ask about her accent. It doesn't matter if it's boring or sounds local, you do this as a non-threatening conversation opener. I usually say something like.. "I noticed your accent. Where ya from?"

If she hasn't spoken, look for something unique about her. This could be anything from jewelry to clothing. You tie the article to something positive... ie; "that's quite a unique piece of jewelry. Did you get this in another country?" etc...

 

[andreihaha]

All was not lost on your train travel. If this has prompted you to improve upon your approach game, then you'll become an improved version of yourself (something that I believe we should practice on every opportunity).

Here are my two favorite "go to" approaches:

If you've heard the woman talk, you ask about her accent. It doesn't matter if it's boring or sounds local, you do this as a non-threatening conversation opener. I usually say something like.. "I noticed your accent. Where ya from?"

If she hasn't spoken, look for something unique about her. This could be anything from jewelry to clothing. You tie the article to something positive... ie; "that's quite a unique piece of jewelry. Did you get this in another country?" etc...

They all have the same accent in this area of the country
And I'm not that interested to ask about jewelry and stuff.
I did speak a bit with the old man which made the women more responsive. He's from a city with beautiful women and I brought that up, the women suddenly started to pay more attention.
Good stuff, I'll update in anything interesting happens.

 

[Lookatu]

I think you just need to break the silence with any random stuff. Doesn't matter. Just start saying anything. The interested or bored ones will start engaging. Go from there...

 

[2Rocky]

Within 3 minutes without asking directly you should be able to discern if the woman is available, If she is attracted, and if you stand a chance of getting in her pants. And you need to do it with out her thinking that is what you are asking...

I'd imagine my line of conversation would be :

Hello I'm Rock. Where are you headed today?

Oh that's nice, I'm going to XXXXXtown. Is that home for you?

No? me neither. I'm a day early for business meetings. I don't have any idea where the good places are for lunch/dinner...

If she is attached this is when she will drop the husband/boyfriend line... "Oh my BF and I like to go to casa d'molcajete. it's got a great view of the sunset."


Notice you volunteer info about yourself, she feels somewhat obligated to play along...I learned this from a Drama Queen who liked to over share her personal life to mine info about you...

 

[Black Widow Void]

They all have the same accent in this area of the country

It doesn't matter. I'd say that half the woman I've opened up with that liner ... I pretty much thought were locals. Usually, they'll respond and with something like ... Oh, my mother was from ___ (insert out of town place) etc...

And I'm not that interested to ask about jewelry and stuff.

... and I am?!??!! (kidding) . Again, it's an opener.
Personally, I find tattoos to be a turn off, but if the woman looks good enough... I'll compromise my standards and open with some comment about her skin 'art-work.'

After you get them engaged in conversation, you can pretty much talk about other things.

 

[andreihaha]

I did engage them in conversations during the road and they did look interested but unfortunately not interesting to me.
That's the main problem with random women and I know better that attracting and finding women I deem worthy is easier in my social circles.
That doesn't mean I can't find suitable women in random places, just that I know when to say "next" rather than waste my time.
Might write a play on the experience of yesterday, the social dynamics were quite interesting.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

I did engage them in conversations during the road and they did look interested but unfortunately not interesting to me.
That's the main problem with random women and I know better that attracting and finding women I deem worthy is easier in my social circles.
That doesn't mean I can't find suitable women in random places, just that I know when to say "next" rather than waste my time.
Might write a play on the experience of yesterday, the social dynamics were quite interesting.

write it, so many threads on sosuave could become plays(pun intended)

 

[Lookatu]

"Who just passed some gas?" always works for me in a crowded elevator.