"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kinda sad really..

Poonani Maker

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When a girl (you fvcked a long time ago) chooses to go out with her girlfriend instead of you. She's bi, of course. Guess she'd rather munch pvssy than get a hard d!ckin tonight...

That's ok, cause, I'm on my way to most likely fvck a gal I'd just met last week, who while older, has every bit as good a body and a less "mental" mind as the one who chose her girlfriend over me. Sad really.., but not for me. Mental chicks are sad head cases. This one wants to control me, I wouldn't let her. I guess that's why she's going to her b!tch who she Can control. Of course, this one always either thinks less of me or tries to show me that she thinks less of me, All the time, just because I'm a man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bipolar chicks are usually NUTS, as you've pointed out. I don't see why she can't invite you along, though.
 

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Well, the one I went out with in her place is mental too, but in a non-confrontational way. Very loopy girl. Fvcked her too, but didn't really want to cause she certainly didn't turn me on mentally, not in the least. When fvcking her, I kept thinking of a cute Christian girl who'd moved away (one of her PT jobs went out of business so she just gave up and moved in with her sister and brother-in-law in a city with a larger job market), who I'd never gotten to bang last year, because they have similar faces, eyes, bodies. I just imagined it was her to get my nut off, otherwise, I'd never have been able to remain hard or come to completion last night. Sweet girl though, but I'd certainly never fvck her again. She seriously needs meds, plus she smokes and doesn't brush her teeth. I told her that she should take care of herself a little more> she wasn't offended either by my suggestions. Skin wasn't soft, smokers breath, I can't handle that, she'd have to do a complete makeover of her appearance And life for me to ever be interested in her again. Yep, at 27-29 their pvssies are wider (she had a kid/barely visible stretchmarks)> another blanked reason as to why I couldn't get off until I started imagining the probably tighter Christian girl I'd never banged or even kissed last year.
 
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