"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kinda pathetic... but help

the pokemaster

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I've been fantasizing about this girl lately i met at the beginning of the year.

I was at a barbeque and we danced the whoooole night together, she was all holding my hand and looking into my eyes and grinding haaaard on me. I didn't get her number, as she said she didn't remember it. I got her cousin to try get it off her and she said she doesn't want a relationship because shes got exams. After the exams she said she doesn't have a phone. So at this point i thought to just forget about her.

On my way to school i saw her again, we made eye contact, but this was early in the morning and i was looking kinda rough and felt dorky in my school uniform.
Yet i was still surprised she didn't say hello to me! I was standing right beside her on the bus. Maybe she didn't recognize me after all i had only met her twice earlier on that year, and didn't have a proper conversation with her.

Ok so what i've got from all of this is she is definately not on it. Then i have to ask myself why. I haven't even shared a 5 minute conversation with her. Yet i know if i was to she would be all over me. The thing is i'm just not getting a chance to talk to her, and i know i blew my chance on the bus.

Her family is close with my family, i know where shes lives.... do you think i should go round her house one day with her cousin? Or is that too stalkerish?

I have been with a number of girls between all of this, its just that this girl is always lingering around the back of my mind. She is actually BEAUTIFUL about a hb10.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Raikojo17

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if u really want her, then get at her, dont wait until the perfect time, make the time. but i would jus forget her. goin through all that trouble chasing a girl who wont give some is jus not my thing. plus, how stupid do u have to be to forget ur own phone number? it would suck for her if she got kidnapped.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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she was just playing u man, she was testing u in the party to c if u r like all the other guys who would fall melting for her looks at the first sign of interest, you should have push and pulled her.
Since you are not experienced enough, just move on, u have no chance wit her, trust me.
 
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