"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kinda mad. its dejavu all over again

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I'm kinda mad. its dejavu all over again. I was gaming this girl and she was starting to fall hard for me. the only bad thing was that she had a ex bf who should would blab about and I would act indifferent about it and I would still game her like normal and it would b successful.

I somehow found out about her ex bf tho while asking her some questions and it seems that she was pregnant with his kid and then had a miscarriage at 3 weeks. so it was a shocker for me. then she told me that she had the kid before she got into a relationship with him. she told me that it was part of her past and that I shouldn't take her for less of that situtation. but who am I kidding. I don't want this sh1t to happen to me and me be in those shoes. she really does sound like a hor now. any feedback guys. I don't even know if I should talk to her anymore. it seems as she cannot be trusted and it could put me in risks I don't want to be in the future
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, sorry to sound like and idiot but: What is your question? And how can I help you? :)
 
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lol. well I guess my question is, now that I found this out, do u think she is worth gaming anymore, or do u think she will cause problems for me in the future. by the way both of us are 18 years old so we are pretty young. means that she got pregnant for only 3 weeks with at 17.
 
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Well, she doesn't have a kid. Why she said anything about a kid that doesn't exist is baffling to me. She might be talking sh!t - either way hit it and act as if she told you nothing. Then move on if that stuff turned you off. You don't need some chick that doesn't know how to keep her mouth shut. She has no idea how to keep a guy interested. Telling a guy all her mishaps is not seductive.
 
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think of it thisway. She was in a genuine relationship, and a guy sliped her the c@ck with out the condom.

That's all it takes to get pregnet.


Personally i'd be more worried if she told me she had a 3some.
The only thing i would suggest; She seems vary fertile, so ware a condom.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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