This girl i've liked before recently started to spend more time with me. The problem is, i've heard rumors that she likes this other guy, i don't know if that's true or not but she does wait for him and his friends after school to walk to the bus stop and she hangs around him as much as she does with me. I don't know if the other guy likes her, but there are rumors that he likes this other girl, i was wondering if i should go ahead and ask her out since the other guy isn't interested in her? Or is there more to it than i thought?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kinda Complicated
- Thread starter PoppinDav
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
You shouldn't worry about other men, just worry about yourself.
Asking her to hang out would be the best decision if you think she'll say yes, then you can escalate from there.
Asking her to hang out would be the best decision if you think she'll say yes, then you can escalate from there.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Don't focus/worry/pay attention to the other guy. She may or may not have a higher interest level in him than you, but that doesn't matter it can all change at the drop of a hat. Just focus on increasing her interest level towards YOU. When it comes to this, I always say let the best man win. I don't hate on other people's games, I just do my thing and it's usually the other guy who cracks. "Why are you talking to Scars so much huh? Do you guys have a thing or what?" The girl senses his neediness and her interest level soon increases for me. Basically how you're feeling and reacting right now is the sure fire of how to NOT get the girl. You want the other guy turning into the insecure needy AFC who is too busy worrying about the competition when he really needs to worry about himself. Nah'what I'm sayin? 