"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broke up with my girlfriend in September. She was cool but it then she kept talking about how she wanted to get pregnant and I told her to get out. Go out once a week at least and I workout all the time and I'm not depressed. I can't find any cool girls though. I hooked up with a chick on halloween and got her number, but there was just nothing there to follow up on (she was an idiot). Now I have no girls on the horizon and my ex wants to get back together but I don't really trust her. What to do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamMalone said:
Broke up with my girlfriend in September. She was cool but it then she kept talking about how she wanted to get pregnant and I told her to get out. Go out once a week at least and I workout all the time and I'm not depressed. I can't find any cool girls though. I hooked up with a chick on halloween and got her number, but there was just nothing there to follow up on (she was an idiot). Now I have no girls on the horizon and my ex wants to get back together but I don't really trust her. What to do?
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Plain and simply, there's no reason to be with a woman if you don't trust her. Moreover, there's no reason to be with a woman unless she is enhancing your life.

She wants to get pregnant? And you're not even engaged? I would stay far away and make sure if you do have sex with this girl, wrap it up-- better yet, wrap it up and make sure you flush the condom down the toilet immediately after.

Don't be so impatient when it comes to finding someone new. You'll find that a lot of women in your life come along when you're least expecting it. It's rare that you're looking hard to find a woman and you find it right away.

Have fun for the time being and forget this girl, who you obviously don't like enough in the first place. Don't be a sucker just because you feel bad for her.
 
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I don't feel bad for her really. I just want to nail something. She'd be the easiest to get as I can't seem to pick girls up at the bars for reasons not known to me.
 
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I think I'm just going to do her once and get it out of my system, ya'know? Sex once every few months is good for me. I'll just use protection as always.
 
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