"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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kind of off topic but dont move plz

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ok in 7th grade my parents made a deal and my mom gave my dad custody cuz she thot i was gonna go bad ways well it turns out **** hasnt changed and my grades are the same (bad) and ive been caught smokin bud and all that by my dad and the truth is i hate him. hes a **** head who wont let me high school now and my mom moved to florida where i periodically visit her (used to live in mass where i am now) and im dying to move back with her cuz im so unhappy up here and ive googled things and it says the higher the age the more likely the judge will take ur side. i have no where else to ask this besides here , so are any of you good in this area and could possibly help me out? my dad wont give me up so its lookin like court but it hasnt got real serious yet but im fed up i want outta here jus cuz of him.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you sure your not still in 7th grade? Please review your post before submitting them... I only have an idea of what the **** you were saying. I think the ruling is that once you are 16 you have the decision of who you want to live with so you could move in with your mother... that is if she allows it and wants you to actually move in with her.
 
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ya sorry i typed it up real quickly, i edited it for the things that were hard to understand
 
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have you spoken to your mother? does she want you to come home to her also?

if so, ask your mom to get the custody back . this will only work if you make promises.

these are the promises that she is going to want to hear in order to fight a legal battle to get you back:

1. i have been caught smoking bud by dad, truth is i tried it with friends here and if i dont move with you im afraid that i will never be able to stop. i know you can help me in ways that dad can not. by moving in with you, i will never see these guys that got me smoking it again and can start a new life. im afraid if i dont start a new life that i will turn out very bad mom. please mom, i know you can help me ...

2. i will be able to start a new school and pull my grades up so i can go to college.


with those 2 promises, mom will do her best to get you home.
 
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Slow down next time.
 

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