"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kind of a weird way to get stood up..

the_stig

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But I guess nothing is surprising these days..

Few weeks ago I exchanged numbers with an attractive 40 year old cougar from Skout (mobile dating app). We exchanged minimal texts, just enough to build up some anticipation for getting together for massages and scary movies. Claimed she had some new massage oil she really wanted to try on us.

She texts me tonight telling me she's free just having a chill night, and was curious if I might finally be available (been genuinely busy). I replied that "a massage would be fitting then" and she seemed quite ecstatic that I was coming with a "yay! followed by her address". I tell her I'll be there in thirty minutes, she replies "can't wait! text me when you're close and i'll raise the garage door"

I arrive, park in visitor parking across from her driveway, but my spider sense is triggered immediately when the lights in the townhouse are on but the garage door closed (I gave her the heads up). I don't see a front door, so I call. No answer. I verify the address is correct, wait at my car for 2-3 minutes before finally saying to hell with it and driving away. Tried calling once more when I was a mile away, no answer. No call back.

I just have to say.. I've never actually been stood up at someone's own house before; definitely a new low, and definitely not one I'd expect from a well off forty year old. Oh, I still got laid tonight by my regular cute blonde, so at least I got the last laugh.

UPDATE: Sends me a text at 3AM saying "omg so sorry, I feel asleep!" :rolleyes:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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She wasn't sleeping, She went to d!ck-fil-a.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
She wasn't sleeping, She went to d!ck-fil-a.
Or Hardeez Nutz/ 5 guys and lies! :crackup:

Regardless, your princess is in another castle. Judge nismo knows it.

Women as high up as 60 will play these types of games with you. Being you got flaked on and dikteased, she just wanted her ego inflated, all the while not finding you attractive.

If a woman starts talking sexy, keep your distance, as women always hold the sex card. As in, they can get dik whenever they want. A woman's most powerful weapon is her pu$$y. Don't get excited of getting some. :nono:

Women want what they can't have. She can have you easily. Perhaps if you were well off or better looking or talked in real life instead of using a mobile app, she wouldn't have used her iTease and iFlake apps. :kick:

Girls you meet in cyberspace have a whole bunch of guys after her. So cut this girl loose and talk to girls in real life for better success. So ordered.

Case closed.
 

PapiChulo

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Sh!t like that doesn't surprise me anymore at all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who knows...maybe she actually feel asleep (?), maybe not...

Waste of time wondering about.

If you are still keen, you could always go with 2 strikes rule, but from the sound of it, since you have other options, there is probably no point.
 
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