Kind of a weird thought...validation question

[Genos]

So I was reading a post from Shark's blog, he was commenting on things that women said in relationsips. Here's the one of interest:

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Surprisingly, one of the most romantic things my husband (then boyfriend) ever did was to whisper to me, in a very intimate moment “I could f*** you forever”.
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Homework: Next time you’re ****ing a girl, do this. I don’t care if you’re ****ing a fat chick on a moped, do it for practice. Notice how the girl says “surprisingly,” because she herself is dumfounded by how turned on and bonded she became from her boyfriend saying 5 words. Social conditioning tells her she needs a dramatically enticing situation to feel that way or a diamond necklace with more karats than bugs bunny; yet here she is experiencing the acme of pleasure after a mere whisper. This is Jedi Game at its finest, an unadulterated manipulation of the female psyche’s deepest desires.

So it's well-understood that compliments when on an initial meeting of a woman can backfire - you might be validating her, and she feels like she already has you, and won't have to work for your attention, etc.

But why does bedroom talk like this increase a woman's attraction for you? I remember when even I was with a girl, when things were getting hot and heavy, she responded well to stuff like "damn babe, you're so sexy". It seems natural, almost instinctive to say this stuff (in moderation of course), but having knowledge of game now, I'm always careful when I give out compliments, so as to not come off as needy or not enough of a challenge.

So why does the sexy talk work exactly?

 

[mangotot]

What's the link to Shark's blog?

 

[No.Danny]

Because women need validation more then they need water. Hence social media

 

[Genos]

@mangotot, link to the particular post the quote is from: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2012/03/women-respond/

 

[mangotot]

@mangotot, link to the particular post the quote is from: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2012/03/women-respond/

Thanks. I note Shark is no longer around, he has left the scene

 

[DragonBlood]

Considering how much women desire being wanted I could see advantages to this.

If you focus your reward validation during sex she will probably give you more sex with all the good feels associated to it.

 

[old_skoolr]

I love dirty talk and always love it when girls scream my name out haha.


Seriously, my theory on why sex talk works is that once your having sex, youve basically won the game, you've found the treasure, the pot of gold etc.
Most guys will samsh the box and leave leaving a girl thinking she might've been used for sex.

I rekon sex talk works because during sex a girl can be at her most vulnerable. She's naked in front of you showing every imperfection she thinks she has to you, and not knowing whether you are judging her for them. With sex talk, it makes her feel that she is the prize worth won. To them its sort of like a compliment thats 100% true because your having sex and thats when all your "emotions" come out (thats what they think). Plus you bring out the dirty lil w.hore inside them and all girls love being s.lutty with a guy without being labelled as one.


But thats just my theory.