Kind of a Tense situation but still smooth

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Now there is this female right, i already gave her signs that im interested in her, ill be playing with her, make her laugh, the whole nine... now the thing is that she told me that she has a bf, but still when we talk regardless of the time or how she feeling her face always lights up and eyes get real shiny, sometimes even i get amaze at how pleasureble and happy she is when i talk to her.

So today at work, she was in the office watching tv and i passed by and decided to go in and see what she was watching, she was watching the hurricane update, so i said " if i die will u miss me?" i said it with a sexy and intrigying look at the same time, like putting her in a tight situation, she hesitated a long time to answer and she said "dont say that", so i repeated, then she said "yeah i will miss you" i said "no you wont miss me" just to see how she was gonna react she said " aww ok then i wont miss you, you aint even in my mind" at that point and even now thats what got me, the you aint even in my mind part i was like " for real?" but ofcourse that she was being sarcastic when she said it, so later on i threw a totally curve ball at her i said " but i bet you that you'll miss more your bf than me huh?" she hesitated for like 6 seconds of silence and she said that she doesnt know, i asked her why, she said cause its a hard question, i didnt wanna overpush things so i just walked out looking at her straight in the eye half smiling, and so did she.

The thing here its obvious that she knows im interested, and im starting to think that she is as a matterfact i think that shes really into me but im not sure in what my next move should be.

Help will be much appreciated.

 

[M2k961]

From the way you presented that, I perceived you to be an insecure whiney chump.

but i bet you that you'll miss more your bf than me huh?

What the hell is this? What have you been taught? You're better than her bf, of course she will miss YOU more than HIM! This "curve ball" is crap.

she hesitated for like 6 seconds of silence and she said that she doesnt know

Translation: She was trying to think of a way to say "yes i will" without putting you down, which is a normal female tactic (avoiding confrontation), and finally couldn't think of anything and said "I don't know."

This was bad.

P.S.: Stop analyzing stupid small stuff! Make a move on her and find out if she's interested or not! Simple as that!

 

[Caveman]

M2k is right.

You need to stop these silly ass questions. It is like a whiney little kid would ask questions.

The first one was okay I think, concidering the way you said it. It would have been better to say it like this though:
"I'll bet you'd miss me when I died" in the same c&f kinda way. All the questions after that would be questions a girl would ask her bf. You come off as insecure and this will not make her think of you in a good way.

Other than that, I think you need to stop giving her this much attention while she has a bf. If she ever asks: Tell her you are not the kinda guy that would steal someones gf.

 

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see that... wateva, i knew that yall was not going to understand it... it aint like im asking straight up questions... is like.... man forget it yall just dont understand, me and her play all the time and joke around etc... and its funny how buddy said that she was thinking in a way of saying yes without putting me down, lol, as matterfact today at work even the coworker approached me and said " you know who likes u?" and he said her, and he dont even know nothing really.

But is all good, really this site anything that is posted is always taken in a negative way and replies are strickly to 100 percent disagree with the thread and always aint nothing done right is always wrong , a person can make the perfect move and still peeps in here will disagree at a 100 percent is all good thouhg.

 

[DJ_Dork]

your next move? look for a single girl.

 

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Well here is an update, yesterday while at work we was talking wateva wateva right, then she looked at me straight in the eyes and she was like "here" she was throwing me a kiss" so at first i thought she was playing about it but then i reached over and kissed her right there on the spot, afterwords i asked her why she kissed me she said cause i wanted a kiss.

Its a funny situation though cause i still dont have her phone number or nottin and this girl has a bf, but i swear every day that passes by my feelings towards her just keeps growing.