"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kim Kardashian or Carmen Ortega?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If Reggie has banged both of them, I went into the wrong f*ckin' profession. :-(
 
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kardashian's @ss is all cellulite, that's why she doesn't show it except in the most airbrushed photos. id take carmen, not that im saying i wouldnt do kim anyway.
 
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kardashian's @ss is all cellulite, that's why she doesn't show it except in the most airbrushed photos. id take carmen, not that im saying i wouldnt do kim anyway.
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I heard she got that fixed. BTW Carmen has a weird face! kim is definitely better. Kim looks like a real woman should look! nice long hair, nice big feminine butt, not anorexic but with some meat on them bones but not fat either, big boobs.
 
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speakeasy said:
If Reggie has banged both of them, I went into the wrong f*ckin' profession. :-(
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I was thinking this the other day. Maybe I should have picked up a ball as a kid instead of a book
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Carmen reminds me of a blow-up doll, esp. her mouth. They are both quite enhanced and being a purist, i find neither of them particularly attractive. Maybe it's just that I know women like that are a pain in the ass and I like to save myself the trouble, but I will take an average looking hispanic girl over either.
 
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Kim, even with her strong jaw, looks more feminine and...real.

Not that I wouldn't hit on Carmen if I saw her in a bar. Hell, I had no idea who she was till a second ago.
 
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I was thinking this the other day. Maybe I should have picked up a ball as a kid instead of a book
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Hahaha. Books pay too! lol
 
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If you want to talk about a dude that's dated some hot f*cking girls, look at Lenny Kravitz: http://www.whosdatedwho.com/celebrities/people/dating/lenny-kravitz.htm

Dude has dated both Adrianna Lima and Penelope Cruz. Damn, you can't get more alpha than that!
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I disagree. It would make him an alpha if he were an average joe. The guy is a rockstar for crying out loud he could get pretty much any woman he wants.

having fame and fortune and the ease it brings to pulling hot women does not make one alpha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I disagree. It would make him an alpha if he were an average joe. The guy is a rockstar for crying out loud he could get pretty much any woman he wants.

having fame and fortune and the ease it brings to pulling hot women does not make one alpha.
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rockstar/movie star/politician/CEO= ALPHA.

I think the alien gamma rays are affecting your brain wave patterns.

You are clueless on many fronts.
 
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Let's go somewhere else.

This topic if I may say is....well....LAME

I closing it because of the fighting anyway

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