"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Killing "three" birds with one stone by going to a gym!

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Although alot of this may seem obvious to many, I will post it again!

Going to the gym is an excellent adventure and is important to your physical, mental and social health!!

1. Going to gym and working out (either cardio or weights) gives you a better physique and confidence (this one is a no brainer)

2. For all of those with some mental health issues (I.E Anxiety, Depression, etc) Excercising has been scientifically proven time and time again to significantly alleviate mild to moderate depression. Who needs medication and therapy when you have the gym?

3. Most gyms have some eye candy to look while you are working out. Who is to say you cannot get a great date out of it. My friend met his current g/f at the gym and they have been dating for about 5 years!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by mahon83050

3. Most gyms have some eye candy to look while you are working out. Who is to say you cannot get a great date out of it. My friend met his current g/f at the gym and they have been dating for about 5 years!!
As long as thats not your primary reason to go to the gym its tolerable !
 

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I've never approached a girl at the gym, except when I told an employee she had pretty eyes and of course a pretty woman in her mid-to upper 30's came over once to tell me what I was doing wrong on a particular machine.

Other than that though, I just focus on the first 2 reasons! Very good reasons to go to the gym.

Last but not least, how do you talk to girls at the gym? I never feel right being all sweaty, not dressed well and never having anything to say except for something obvious.
 

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I can't talk to girls at the gym.

When I've just finished a set of squats... there is no blood in my brain, and anythign I say comes out as:

"bashd blha ughh...."
 

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Originally posted by Jukeboxhero
I've never approached a girl at the gym, except when I told an employee she had pretty eyes and of course a pretty woman in her mid-to upper 30's came over once to tell me what I was doing wrong on a particular machine.

Other than that though, I just focus on the first 2 reasons! Very good reasons to go to the gym.

Last but not least, how do you talk to girls at the gym? I never feel right being all sweaty, not dressed well and never having anything to say except for something obvious.

I've made eye contact with some chicks at the gym; smiled and then I wait for her reaction to me next time I see her. If she avoids eye contact, I just received my answer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Although alot of this may seem obvious to many, I will post it again!

Going to the gym is an excellent adventure and is important to your physical, mental and social health!!

1. Going to gym and working out (either cardio or weights) gives you a better physique and confidence (this one is a no brainer)

2. For all of those with some mental health issues (I.E Anxiety, Depression, etc) Excercising has been scientifically proven time and time again to significantly alleviate mild to moderate depression. Who needs medication and therapy when you have the gym?

3. Most gyms have some eye candy to look while you are working out. Who is to say you cannot get a great date out of it. My friend met his current g/f at the gym and they have been dating for about 5 years!!
If your mainly hitting the free weights, this isn't always that great.

First off, during your workout, it should be hardcore all the way. That means keeping focus throught the WHOLE workout session. Treat it as if you have one hour to work your body to the EXTREME, to massacre your muscles to the point where you will not only discomfort them, but you will FORCE, that's right, FORCE, them to ADAPT and GROW. Your muscles are lazy. But you will KICK THEIR ASS INTO GROWTH!!

I don't know about you, but when I am in this mindset, women really don't occupy my mind. And after a workout, I'm often so filled with raging testosterone or exhausted that all I want to do is go home and start eating.
 
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