"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This was by far one of the best things that I have ever read, and to be honest... I did not even read it all. Yet, I got it. A lot of people who posted before me did not get it... read it again, you will learn something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I occasionally check this site once in awhile to see how things are going, and today i found this post. The one question that is ALWAYS on the front page is a girl did something and the guy wants to know how to react. Example: The girl didn't call when she was suppose to, she called a hour later than planned.

Why do people care about that?? Seriously it's like who the hell cares.

The one thing I found out from this past school year is that you should jump off the bridge WILLINGLY. This post really spoke to me so I felt I had to respond. Because the more times you jump off the bridge (what a great metaphor btw), is that you get used to it more. The fear, anxiety, and intensity goes away a little more each time... People on this site may think that reading tips will get them the knowledge they need but really were all a little too anxious to learn this all. Sosuave DOES increase the time period it takes for us to learn all of this but the main factor is life. The problem I had growing up was the moving and lack of a father figure. But this year and last year he was here a little more and I TOOK THE INTIATIVE TO GO OUT AND LEARN. I spent ****ing countless weekends going to girls houses (hard right ? haha) and learning from medium looking girls. I have been going to the gym a hell of a lot and am ****ing manly. Why am I sharing this with you? To reinforce to myslef that I deserve this more than anyone.

People seriously just go out and forget about sosuave's techniques. Just remember to stay manly as hell and that girls want guys more than anything else. It's not as complicated as sosuave makes it to be. lifes simple
 
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