"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm stuck wit this gal.. she is very beautiful .. and her smile is
just kills m every time she smiles man.. the thing is we are both
taekwan-do black belts but we only get to meet each other at tournament once every year dude . i never noticed her for about 3 years until last year when i found her at a birthday party.. she is my mother's best freinds daughter. i fell in love cause her smile and her eyes just stunning . Then after 3 weeks i found out she is a rich gal. my hopes are thin dude. then i met her again . this time she is alone ina car. And she smiled at me. i don't know for what. i don't wanna guess.i hope hope she can be mine thats all dude.1st time i looked into her eyes she looking at me back that was a good sign then she smiled at me when she found me. i love her very much damm very much .. her smile and her eyes man just kills me i can't sleep at all..

help me! solve this for me
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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for cryin out loud u r a black belt for god's sake.
so go up to her like a real black belt....not askin u to be over macho or stuff
but since she smiles at least it's a "welcome" sign man...just go and talk to her...and well read the bible here it can help....and the rest is ur work man!!!
good luck
just break the ice....she is givin u enough chances already ok ;)
 

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Next time you see her ask if she wants to get some sparring practice in.
 

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you should really read the stuff they have on this site aside from the forums. if you've read and applied half of the stuff from this site then you should at least be able to play it cool and talk to her.
see if those smiles of hers lead anywhere, and remember don't go all out "I love you so much" on a first date. if i were you i'd be more scared of scaring her off than talking to her.

NOW HURRY UPPER YOUR 3 SECONDS ARE PASSING!
 
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