Killing Kittens Sex Party

[DragonBlood]

There was an article in the news today that really shocked and caught my eye. Basically the article was written from the angle of 'empowering beautiful women' and 'allowing women to express their sexual fantasies' through a sex party called Killing Kittens.

They have a twitter and official website where you can sign up etc.

http://www.killingkittens.com/Party-Diary.php
https://twitter.com/killing_kittens


I couldnt believe this sh!t is legit and it actually left me feeling pretty damn depressed (explained further down). Here are the entry requirements for KK.

£100 per couple
OR
£40 per girl

There is no way for a single man to be invited. You must be invited by a women to serve as much agency as a living sex toy for the evening.

Rules of KK
1: girls make the rules and only girls can break the rules
2: no means no
3: men cannot approach women
4: members only



So why would this depress me? Sounds great right? Well where Im from the first strip club was officially opened in the capital city a year or two ago and it was quickly shutdown by female protesters likewise there was a brothel in my town that I only heard about when it was shutdown/raided and the main parties involved were jailed. So to see something like KK just so casually and universally accepted while the male equivalents are shamed and destroyed as quickly as possible left me in shock. I know the swingers group is nothing new but I am starting to become disillusioned by its acceptance.


Basically if your a single man looking for some cheap thrills you are shamed and possibly put into prison.

If your a woman however you have access to casual partners who will wing you into orgys. Will it really come to the point where we could start getting texts like this:

"Sorry DJ have to cancel, I forgot it was KK tonight gonna have sex with 5 guys promised to bring my friend, maybe next week?"

Another article on going to KK
http://metro.co.uk/2012/06/22/this-isnt-just-an-orgy-this-is-a-killing-kittens-sex-party-477507/

Polly, 33, and her husband John, 43, have been together for 12 years.

‘When I reached 30, I felt like something was missing,’ says Polly. ‘I loved my husband but hadn’t had many sexual partners and felt I might have an affair.’

This is all very disempowering. Im sorry guys but I think this has snapped my sanity, 'Pollys' comments alone are almost too much to get my head around. Am I missing something here? What are we suppose to do?

 

[Yo'Mama]

Hire a hooker to go along to the party with you, so that you can get in since it's not open to single guys. Go to party. Bang as many women as possible while the hooker herself gets banged. Go home and then either do or do not bang hooker depending how strong your stomach is.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Hire a hooker to go along to the party with you, so that you can get in since it's not open to single guys. Go to party. Bang as many women as possible while the hooker herself gets banged. Go home and then either do or do not bang hooker depending how strong your stomach is.

He can't hire a hooker as the brothel was closed down and the hookers sent to jail.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Good point. DragonBlood, do you have a sister?

 

[DragonBlood]

OK I see my point is falling to slander.

My main issue is that as long as a man feels embarrassment and shame going to something as light hearted as a strip club or could even face jail or STDs for something equivalent to the female KK we are always going to be on a back foot compared to female empowerment and sexuality. Where did this shame come from anyway? There is an undertone of a male shaming for expressing his sexuality in our society.

I recall back to the story I read in the paper a few years ago which basically tore apart the first of its kind strip club in the capitol as a bastion of evil. They couldnt get any business as any man interested in going had to go through a wave of female protesters shaming and preventing him from going inside the club. To contrast it with the story of KK appearing in the same country I was left jaded at best at its defacto acceptance. £40 for an all night orgy session with men or women of your choosing? Thats not a bad business you got going there missy. Sorry, I meant female empowerment. We use to call them brothels and put people like you in jail, but seeing as your a women and this has something to do with empowering women.. yeah its all good I guess.


If men had socially accepted access to the likes of KK or even a decent striptease from super model wannabes there wouldnt be such a thing as oneitis, that HB5 in your class/office/club would be de-pedestalized instantly.

 

[VikingKing]

OK I see my point is falling to slander.

My main issue is that as long as a man feels embarrassment and shame going to something as light hearted as a strip club or could even face jail or STDs for something equivalent to the female KK we are always going to be on a back foot compared to female empowerment and sexuality. Where did this shame come from anyway? There is an undertone of a male feeling ashamed for expressing his sexuality in our society.

I recall back to the story I read in the paper which basically tore apart the first of its kind strip club as a bastion of evil. They could get any business as any man interested in going had to go through a wave of female protesters shaming and preventing him from going inside the club. To contrast it with the story of KK I was left jaded at best at its defacto acceptance.


If men had socially accepted access to the likes of KK or even a decent striptease from super model wannabes there wouldnt be such a thing as oneitis, that HB5 in your class/office/club would be de-pedestalized instantly.

Yes in the western world women are encouraged to express/ explore their sexuality.

Yes men are pushed to be nice guys via ridiculous sexual harassment laws, the media, schools, religion, ect.

This sounds like a place for women to go so they can fvck each others husbands, and explore lesbianism.

Hey man, sure its kind of twisted, but you shouldn't be letting it affect your emotions.

The world is fair, people are not. Learn to not give a fvck, about stuff like this. If you don't like it, you don't have to look into stuff like this.

Worry about you, what you want to do, what makes you happy.

I used to go to AA, and for the most part, it's full of slef-defeating talk and attitudes. But there is one, and only one thing that I took from AA that is absolute gold, and some of the best advice I've ever heard.

Focus only on what you can control, and let go of what you can't.

Who cares about some dumb whovres who want to have orgies like that.

 

[dasein]

1. You are making a mistake in equating a private party like this KK thing to an ongoing business like a strip club or prostitutes that may be regulated by the state much more than a private party. You are free to set up the exact same thing as this KK, but for men or even with a gender neutral theme. You could even -mock- the KK thing as being for backwards sexists, and claim that anyone interested in equality and true freedom of sexual expression would go to your party. You could in essence -shame- the infantile purveyors of such as this KK, in effect using their own medicine against them. You would have to promote and market the hell out of it for it to have any draw, but it -can- be done. So getting your perspective right on this could reduce some of the as you say "disempowerment" you are feeling.

Take empowerment from the fact that you aren't bound by closets full of sexual hangups and insecurities, and don't need some "magic bubble" of protective rules, restrictions and conditions to pursue your sexuality freely. Pity these warped KK creatures.

2. Don't take this KK thing too seriously. I would bet dollars to donuts it's mostly an urban legend sham front intended as agitprop more than any real thing, fabricated by some feminist group, either on a local campus, urban spinsters or elsewhere. Also, I bet if it even occurs that it will be full of lardessas and the grisliest looking sort of feminists, not the hip, hot women one might imagine at first. In fact the floor will likely collapse unless they have it on a thick slab foundation ground floor. Don't want to be on the third floor when the Killing Kittens rhinoceros fest gets a crankin'! Imagine the grunts, bellows and falling plaster from all that poundage in motion. Do you really want to be there? The more I think about it, if it even is a real thing, it's a hog party for women who can't get laid otherwise OR a consolation type of social event for women who are so impossible to deal with that they can't keep a relationship. Neither desirable.

 

[gravityeyelids]

haha this sh!t reminds me of Nip/Tuck

 

[CrimsonPanther]

i don't really care about this. sounds too feminist/*****y to me. even if it is true, i doubt many men attend it outside of some manginas/golden boys. i really don't need a feminist orgy to feel good, i am quite glad using my plates, LTR and FB's
i kinda pity these kind of people. and not just the "glamurous feminist orgy aka whalefest" attendants, but all whu engage into excessingly lavish stuff to escape a boring life. i mean how bored must you be to attend all the boring events?
i am unfortunate enough to have been invited to some of these in my area also, and i even went to some of them, and all the time i was either bored out my senses, or disgusted of all the fakeness. but then again, i feel the same way in churches, so the joke may be on me in the end ))) anyway, don't get mad about things like these, some people need these to not feel dead. let them, or if you are so inclined, join them.

or if you are disgusted by the fact that it states that females rule, and men drool, remember that there are a lot of places where there's quite the opposite, we just don't advertise it with such an extreme joy as they do.

 

[Chamber36]

yeah I dont get what the problem is?

If women need to go to a place like this where there's rules inhibiting men from approaching... How power-hungry are they?

Why would you even want to hang around women that just want to shame men? Just go to a night-club and find some drunk b*tches that IOI you from the get-go.

I wouldn't mind trying a party like that where women are encouraged to approach - half the work will already be done for you! This semi-feminist semi-patriarchal world where men have to do all the work entertaining women is what I don't like.
A party where women are encouraged to approach sounds like heaven to me. All I'd have to do is wait. And if they don't approach I'd just leave. I almost always wait for an IOI tbh. Or I just tell from the body-language whether they are ready to be approached, then I approach.

It's really not so hard to do anything with women, starting a conversation, getting a make-out or escalating from make-out to fvck. The trick is to just not make any mistakes.

And the less responsibilities put on you as a man, the less mistakes you can make. You can just be a pretty-boy fvck doll. You wouldn't even need to qualify yourself. All you really got to do is look good and be easy-going.

 

[Don_Dom]

I would love to check out something like this, too, but something tells me that there is no way this works the way it's planned. Feminist types always think that the world can be changed simply by changing the rules and tweaking the culture but it never works that way. Male and female nature just is what it is and it doesn't matter what they try to do to change it.

First, they can't REQUIRE men to do anything with women when approached. Overtly sexually aggressive women, in my experience, tend to be women you wouldn't want to fvck with someone else's ****....Warpigs and amazon women overcompensating for the fact that they are scary by just being scarier. They think they are empowered. LOL

Then consider that the only men who can come are in couples. Ever really looked at most married couples, especially after children? Men either stay the same or improve...they have a woman dressing them, get more distinguished with age....at worst gain a few lbs. With notable exceptions, the women completely fall apart. But here they come to an event like this....she looks like crap and he doesn't...with a woman on his arm preselecting him for the hotter younger wives and the single women. Sounds great on paper for the women but I'm betting its a really bad deal for the married/attached women. I'm also betting that most couples go once but don't return the next time because of this.

I'm sure there's more. I would love to be at something like this because it would either be really easy, as mentioned above, or really funny in ways the organizers didn't intend. My money's on both. LOL

Hell, it would be fun to just be a fly on the wall and watch.