"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kiling my friggin soul man!

Jester

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I dont know about you guys, but i can not take having a job...its driving me crazy. And i refuse to do it for much longer


but that leaves me with a bit of a problem....money.


to work means to have money. to have money means to be able to have much more fun than you could without it. But to work, also means to have to limit your fun. to spend hours upon hours of your youth in one place without many options of fun.



To every problem there is a solution. There is a solution to this problem as well. I want to create my own business. I've attempted it before,(im actually CEO of a corporation i registered with New Jersey, but uhh its a company in name only), without much success. but i have ot try again, cause i CANT frigging take this crap no more!

If anybody has any ideas, feel free.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NRM

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Starting your own business is hard work and it'll take a while till you reep the benefits. But as for work, it's just something that has to be done if you want money. It's tough, but it's a big choice. From not working to working, there's a big financial difference and you're happy for a while till you can't go out much anymore.

It just depends how much fun costs for you and how much it's worth to you. Maybe there's something out there that you can do that you enjoy.
 

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Hrm, the work done for my own business tho i wouldnt mind.


i just really hate being a slave. I like to come when i wanna come and leave when i wanna leave. make what i earn, u guys dig it?


come on guys ideas i know there are some smart creative mofos out there.
 

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I know its hard man i never had a job longer then 6 months lol im not proud of that but you get kinda tired of workin after awhile. Sad thing is i only worked like 30 hours a week and got paid every 2 weeks and all i did was sit on my ass and i couldnt even do that.
 

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Hey man,

Your a DJ, theres nothing you can't do. If you can't take working in a place that rapes you of anything fun and exciting, then continue on with your business. It is hard work at first but your a DJ, there nothing you can't handle. Plus you get to do whatever you want whenever you want. I'm sure you know of all the advantages etc.. of having your own business. Just stick with it.

The key to your success is to have products, and advertise. Work for a month and use the money on advertising. That will get you a lot of sales.

Stay motivated.

Just remember your a DJ and you can do ANYTHING.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Try to get a job in with government - either at a municipal level, or state, or even federal.

I have a job with a city (population 200,000) and basically you can whack it all day and get crazy amounts of cash. We do nothing. I am not exaggerating. I think the most we did in one day was drive around in a truck, taking turns driving so the other 2 people could sleep.

City jobs are amazing :)
 
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